Dear Kissy, What would u do if all of your life your mother talked about you badly to other family members to her friends to your friends and even to your boyfriends every time you confront her with this she says she didn’t say it how could everyone say the same thing and it be a lie? How could a mother treat her daughter so badly. She sees her daughters   Read More ...

Hey Kissy, I’m back again with a more serious question. There’s this guy i’ve been talking to..well more of a friend at the moment..since November 2011. He says he is looking for good friendship, not soley a relationship because he wants to take his time finding the right person. He is a pretty cool guy and very respectful. He is someone I can see myself with- as a potential mate.   Read More ...

  Hey Miss Kissy, I’ve been with my guy for 15years and counting…  3kids,1degree, several arguments and a dysfuntional household later…  I still dont have a ring. He says he wants to get married “when the time is right”..WTF does that mean? I’ve tried leaving him in an attempt to “wake him up”…but all that did was affect the kids. I love him but I dont know if want to   Read More ...

Dear Kissy, I recently had the most interesting mind stimulating, intriguing encounter with an A1 personality. First of all i treat others with as much respect as i can. I was raised pretty good. I am currently in a relationship that recently hasn’t been going too well. I understand relationships do go through there peaks and valleys. The main reason has been because of trust issues. Honesty and loyalty are   Read More ...

Dear Miss Kissy, I met a man that can be just an uncover friend that likes you, only wants to sleep with you or he didnt really say that if he wants me or not but he could be in the future. He has only a part time job that pays only a little less to none and hes been to prison so I had told him to not bother   Read More ...

Subject: Pimpin ain’t easy Kissy, I have a question and I don’t wanna feel like i’m the only one that feels this way. Sometimes I feel like it would be so much easier if I had a pimp instead of a boyfriend. A boyfriend will take you through drama and head-games…A pimp will give you the hard-earned money that you worked for without any hassles. A pimp will make you   Read More ...

Dear Kissy,  A few months ago I met this guy named JC. He is really cute, smart, and has a great sense of humor. We have great chemistry and he has become one of my best friends. Before we had sex, he would talk a lot of stuff about how wonderful he is in bed. Well, a few weeks ago we finally had sex and it was really bad. Have   Read More ...

Dear Kissy, My sister is a 24 year old college student who because of her medical bills cannot afford to move out of our parents home. It is rare that she goes out but when she does my mother gets upset that she comes home at 3 or 4 in the morning. My mother feels it is disrespecting the home.  My father feels that it is not a problem and   Read More ...

Dear Kissy: I am married with two daughters from my previous relationship and my wife has three boys from her previous relationship.  Although she has boys and I am their step father I deeply desired to have a male seed of my own. We tried twice and ended up with two more daughters.  I figured my wife couldn’t have any more boys so I went out and got myself a   Read More ...

The Question: DEAR KISSY, I am 19. I was raised in a good home and taught to respect and carry myself like a lady. Recently because of these values my boyfriend broke up with me. He wanted me to “give him head” and I think you shouldn’t do that for guys unless you are married. I had sex with him, but I refused to perform oral. He broke up with   Read More ...

The Question: DEAR KISSY: I’ve been a fan on Facebook for a while. I have a question I want your opinion on. Is it ok to date someone if you dated their family member in the past…like eleven years ago. I always had a crush on my current boyfriend except back then I didn’t think I stood a chance so I dated his brother. Now eleven years later I’m deeply   Read More ...

The Question: Why is it when a couple is going through financial hardships the first thing the lady wants to do is stop having sex ??? Late at night saying things like “we dont have any time for this”…. If you can watch soaps all day then you can sex your man no matter what the hardship is…. Can you help me w/ this dillemma ???? submitted via email Kissy’s   Read More ...

.   THE QUESTION: Why is it that Spanish women do things for their man that black women don’t? My lady who is Spanish will clip my toe nails and massage my feet and my ex-wife, who is black, refused to.  Submitted By: Richard via Facebook    KISSY’S ANSWER:  Richard, This actually has nothing to do with race at all.  They are simply two different women.  Personally I would not   Read More ...

    DEAR KISSY: I know, I shouldn’t but I feel sooo behind in life.. in a few days i’ll be 20. I’ve never had a boyfriend, i’ve never been kissed, i’ve never even been out on a date! I’ve got just as much going for me as any other girl.. I’m in college and I have a job. I just don’t understand, like i have cute guy friends that   Read More ...

This was written in response to my Photoshop BLog PHOTO TAKEN DOWN PER TEARYN’s REQUEST Kissy, how come you can call other females ugly but you get upset if someone else has the same opinion about you – to the point of writing an entire blog post about it? You know I like you and your advice, but you are coming across as a little vain and hypocritical in the   Read More ...

      DEAR KISSY: About a month ago I had one of my crazier nights with a friend of a friend… Went to a party, homegirl introduced me to her cousin who was fine as hell, we flirted, hug out and negotiated terms of the one-night-stand… So we got it on for hours and it was awesome, but for three dayz I was like Bambi on Ice… my legs   Read More ...

  DEAR KISSY: I’m 23 years old and I’m a mom to a 2mnth old precious son. After I broke-up with ex, I discovered that I’m 3 months pregnant. Told him, but he insisted on aborting the baby but I  couldn’t. During the pregnancy, my family elders gave him a call for damages as it is a tradition when u fall pregnant unmarried. He told them he wants nothing do   Read More ...