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THE SQUAD!!!
With all the buffoonery and foul acting mates out there following the Love & Hip-Hop / Basketball Wives / Bad Girls Club handbook on how not to act like a lady it may be necessary to have a team instead. If you’ve found a diamond in the rough aka a sensible mate that makes you happy this doesn’t apply, but if you haven’t and have confidence and skills this guide may be for you.

Everyone talks about the lack of “good” men, that women outnumber the men, and how women are often left searching for their equal. My question is if you’re a “good” man why would you settle for ONE woman when the odds are in your favor? What reason would you have not to have a SQUAD? I don’t mean like 20-30 women but at least a good starting 5!

Here’s the blueprint:

The ALL-STAR (s):

You wanna start with your ALL-STAR, because this the cornerstone of your team and the one you spend the most time with. She gotta be RIGHT!!!! And possess most if not all the qualities you would seek if you were gonna make her the main chick. Hell this is the MVP, so if she sticks around long enough she has the most potential to one day make it to wife material when and if you ever wanna slow down. She looks good, is intelligent, and a head turner. She could have any man wife her but she met you first, you put it down and now she’s not going anywhere anytime soon. She’s beautiful so you treat her good but you can’t over compliment her like all the other dudes, your angle has to be way different! Make her laugh, say off the wall stuff to her out of the blue, be unpredictable. You have to do something special for her regularly, like send flowers or take her on a vacation or two. For her to stick around you gotta at least make her feel like the main chick, telling her you love her & she’s the ONE regularly (make her feel “special”). Occasionally or often (depending on the woman) these players WILL become disillusioned with the team and it’s goals and you WILL have to Woo her back with something special, that shows them they are st*rs of the team! A big ticket item or trip has to be budgeted within the salary cap for unexpected outbursts! The st*rs need to be kept happy because you can’t win a title without them!

Now for the remaining  women you have a lot of slack on how to handle your player rotation. You can try having two or three all stars (Miami Heat style) and run your team that way on your championship run or keep it low key and just get some role players. Going for the title could get complicated as the all stars might compete to be the MVP instead of playing their positions thus creating problems with cohesion & team chemistry, leaving you as a coach in a  possible situation where you have to trade or cut one of them in order to stay headed for success. You have to be the Phil Jackson of your team catering to the big egos while keeping your eyes on the prize, but also have the ice cold veins that allow you to make whatever cuts are necessary for success.  Pages: 1 2 3 4