For generations the women of Non African-American descent, particularly Asian Women are said to be best at keeping their man happy. These women have been well-versed and groomed with secrets, and rules, passed down to them from generation to generation, to aide in keeping their mates happy.
However, if you pay any attention to the majority of complaints. black women who were raised up and taught to be “Strong and Independent” experience a bit of a struggle when it comes to knowing how to keep their men feeling happy and like he is the King of his domain.
Indeed, a black woman does not want to be considered weak under any circumstances, she wants to be independent and let her man know that she doesn’t need him for anything.. Often times this behavior comes off a bit too strong and leaves them wondering where they went wrong.
It doesn’t matter what race you are.. Women have to work hard to keep a man. But black women have to work twice as hard. But there are many successful marriages in the black community. I’ve compiled a list of winning secrets from various successful, with black men as heads of the household. Nothing is 100%, but these techniques actually work.
15 Secrets That Will Have A Black Man Feeling Like A King…






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Kissy "^&%$#$$%^" Denise! I smiled all the way through this, not just because of what was written, but WHO wrote it. I digress, for now! I was first struck by the tone of the article. It read as very sincere, thought-out and I sensed you really were trying to "help." And what was just as refreshing was how reasonable your suggestions were. I must tell you Kissy, even if a woman COULD NOT ultimately adhere to these concepts, as a man I would simply appreciate and honor her EFFORT. Knowing you, I know this is not you in any way giving men a "free pass" or implying a woman should be docile or his puppy who must follow him around waiting to be told what to do. And that is the point. If anything, you EMPOWER women through your words! Coming from someone who is as outspoken, as blunt and as independent as you are, THIS ADVICE MATTERS! But it also matters for us as men just as well. For you remind US that in order to be so blessed to have such a woman, we too must be the blessing to her wants and needs as well. We must DESERVE a woman such as this! Thank you Kissy for the wisdom, and the Love!
Kissy "^&%$#$$%^" Denise! I smiled all the way through this, not just because of what was written, but WHO wrote it. I digress, for now! I was first struck by the tone of the article. It read as very sincere, thought-out and I sensed you really were trying to "help." And what was just as refreshing was how reasonable your suggestions were. I must tell you Kissy, even if a woman COULD NOT ultimately adhere to these concepts, as a man I would simply appreciate and honor her EFFORT. Knowing you, I know this is not you in any way giving men a "free pass" or implying a woman should be docile or his puppy who must follow him around waiting to be told what to do. And that is the point. If anything, you EMPOWER women through your words! Coming from someone who is as outspoken, as blunt and as independent as you are, THIS ADVICE MATTERS! But it also matters for us as men just as well. For you remind US that in order to be so blessed to have such a woman, we too must be the blessing to her wants and needs as well. We must DESERVE a woman such as this! Thank you Kissy for the wisdom, and the Love!
Kissy "^&%$#$$%^" Denise! I smiled all the way through this, not just because of what was written, but WHO wrote it. I digress, for now! I was first struck by the tone of the article. It read as very sincere, thought-out and I sensed you really were trying to "help." And what was just as refreshing was how reasonable your suggestions were. I must tell you Kissy, even if a woman COULD NOT ultimately adhere to these concepts, as a man I would simply appreciate and honor her EFFORT. Knowing you, I know this is not you in any way giving men a "free pass" or implying a woman should be docile or his puppy who must follow him around waiting to be told what to do. And that is the point. If anything, you EMPOWER women through your words! Coming from someone who is as outspoken, as blunt and as independent as you are, THIS ADVICE MATTERS! But it also matters for us as men just as well. For you remind US that in order to be so blessed to have such a woman, we too must be the blessing to her wants and needs as well. We must DESERVE a woman such as this! Thank you Kissy for the wisdom, and the Love!
Kissy "^&%$#$$%^" Denise! I smiled all the way through this, not just because of what was written, but WHO wrote it. I digress, for now! I was first struck by the tone of the article. It read as very sincere, thought-out and I sensed you really were trying to "help." And what was just as refreshing was how reasonable your suggestions were. I must tell you Kissy, even if a woman COULD NOT ultimately adhere to these concepts, as a man I would simply appreciate and honor her EFFORT. Knowing you, I know this is not you in any way giving men a "free pass" or implying a woman should be docile or his puppy who must follow him around waiting to be told what to do. And that is the point. If anything, you EMPOWER women through your words! Coming from someone who is as outspoken, as blunt and as independent as you are, THIS ADVICE MATTERS! But it also matters for us as men just as well. For you remind US that in order to be so blessed to have such a woman, we too must be the blessing to her wants and needs as well. We must DESERVE a woman such as this! Thank you Kissy for the wisdom, and the Love!
I like your list Kissy… one thing though… my boyfriend loves to watch me get dressed for work, doing the makeup/hair thing. I've also heard other ladies say their men like to watch them get dressed and made up. *shrugs* different strokes, I guess.
That's funny. That was the one I disagreed with.
I can’t agree with the starting an arguement on purpose. Chances are there will be some every now and then naturally, no need to manufacture one. Other than that this was a very interesting article. I enjoyed reading it.