I am so frustrated! When my husband talks to his ” baby moma” he ignores me and put her first or lies about who he’s talking to. Yesterday we was sitting down watching tv. She calls. He jumps up an runs to the patio.
I wait a good 15 mins ( which is more than enough time to discuss a 17 year old) then i walk outside an politely ask who r u talking to! He gets angry an say who r u the dam police then turns his back to me an continue to talk to her.
So i go inside turn off the tv an get on his laptop. Another 15 goes by b4 he comes in then he completely knocks the laptop out of my hand onto the floor while yelling at me for questioning him.
I feel like he puts me second to her and respects her more. He said f#ck me cuz i was pissed about this but was i wrong?
We still not talking. He always waits for me to apologize or come to him first like I need him more than he need me when honestly i pay all the bills an wonder really why is he here. Love cant be the answer.
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IS HE STILL SEXING HIS BABY MAMA?
Well….that may not be all he puttin. Babymamma support is often times is replaced for CHILD support honey. You decide if you should stay or slide. Follow your gut.
For sure he is, he still have feeling for her, you better watch out he might slip away from you.
I bet she even pays his child support,sad that a lot of good women and men wind up dealing with mess like this.You are right on point about her head being next SMDH!!1
Yea you are the onlyone that can decide what to do, and as a woman i would say leave him, because if he is putting another woman before you its clear that you dont mean that much to him.
Yes he is!!!
1. You let him treat you like that…why? Its two steps from being an abusive relationship. 2. It is rude to ask someone on the phone who they talking to instead of waiting until they are finished. I would be mad too. That's y he went outside and why I hate talking on the phone in front of people because they are rude. If they wanted you in it they would've called you on three way. It's between him & her about their child he can fill u in on details later. 3. Go with your gut if you think its something more going on with them than what your told, than leave him but to be questioned over and over again about the nature of the relationship and being told its nothing but you insist that it is, is annoying and frustrating. It's like she doesnt trust him. Plus we don't know if there is bad blood between her and the bm or not, which is probably why he went outside. If your insecure than there's no need to date or marry anyone with kids. It sounds like insecurity to me. That's not saying he's right, they maybe be but your actions don't help the situation. And just because the kid is 17 doesn't mean he stops being a father.
she should leave that fuckin bum then, he don't even respect her wishes.and if he's that type of person tellin from his anger and respect level for his wife, then physical abuse is next, I hate to say.and he either is sexin his bm or he really wants to.
The bottom line is that he has no respect for u. Especially as a wife. What benefit do u get from this relationship and he cant even support u?
Of course.. If baby mamma gets more attention than the baby then what else would that fool be on the phone for?
You should leave! Let him and his baby mamma have at it! He doesn't respect you or your marriage!