It’s time for you to stop listening to these broke dudes talk about being a gold digger.. Under no circumstances (excluding rich people) should you have a man with no job. If your baby daddy isn’t in the picture you have obviously chosen a bad man. That is a chance to learn from your mistake. Not go get knocked up by the next no good ninja you meet who tells you he loves you..
Broke men fall in love very easily…Of course he loves you, no worthwhile woman wants his azz.
Secondly, it’s COMMON SENSE to be cautious about who you put your kids around. Under NO circumstances should you allow a man to hit your kids, especially kids that are not his. AND if your man is beating your azz you really should be mindful of how he treats your kids….
Lastly, a man that can’t help you pay bills or do anything for you is worthless.. Smart women breed with men who can help build a good life for them and their kids. Stop trying to live like you are a super baller rich lady like Gaga or sum ish and you are not..
If he isn’t assisting you he is taking away from you. It’s as simple as that.. Raise you own damn bar and stop laying up with worthless men..
I don’t care if you are broke as hell. A broke man should disgust you. If you are broke be broke by your damn self until you do better or find a man that can help you do better… You especially should stop having sexual relations with men who do nothing for you. Call it hoeing or whatever you want to name it, but you are being stupid and showing how worthless you are when you do so. Being alone for a little while or even a year or 2 is not that bad.. It’s a opportunity time to focus and invest in yourself.
FIND YOUR WORTH, If you don’t think you are worth something no one else will.. Tell em to come correct or don’t come at all.
No other woman is going to keep it real like I do.. But I promise you this is the honest to God Truth..