Men these days are confused.. I usually end up “going in” on the women, but I’m so appalled at some of these male comments I read I gotta change gears for a minute. Fellas do you have any idea what in the ham sammich you want from women? They don’t like “good guys”, they give it up too easy, I can’t get none.… Some of y’all really need to evaluate yourself and realize that the main reason you may be having some of these problems is YOU!!
First, the “I can’t get none” dude.. I feel so sorry for y’all, I really do. It’s 2012, we have a Tupac hologram, a black president, white female rappers, Facebook, the iPhone, hybrid cars. Women are throwing it from the free point line and you mean to tell me you can’t get none? Excuse me while I laugh at you.
Since God put Adam & Eve in the garden “getting some” should NEVER be an issue for a man. I’m not saying you should be able to get some from every woman you’re interested in, hell did Jordan hit every shot he took? Of course not!!
But be realistic just because a women isn’t interested in you doesn’t mean she wants a baller or anything of the sort, instead it means…. You’re not interesting to her! Maybe it’s your conversation or lack thereof, maybe you’re not tall enough, maybe you’re not in shape, maybe you can’t dress, maybe you’re still wearing a doo rag & brut cologne, it could be a million different things.
But just like Jordan put that work in after getting cut in high school it’s on you to figure out what the problem is, not the woman! Maybe you’re aiming too high, you’re going for a 9 knowing you’re really a 5 on a good day. Either way it shouldn’t be that hard & if all else fails google some tips (I feel sooo sorry for your mother) if you fall into this category, it’s a damn shame!
Now for the dudes that rode the short yellow bus to school, let me break it down for you. If you categorize a woman because she gave it up too soon, what does that say about you? Meaning you have to have low self esteem or mild retardation to get what it is you’re seeking, then complain about it. You don’t wanna wait 90 days, that’s too long but if she gives it up too early she’s automatically a prostitute to some of y’all. I don’t get it! Is your game that weak?
Are you that amazed she gave it up to your ashy ass at all? I personally would feel like I’m just that dude & wouldn’t classify her at all based on that. If it’s so appalling to you why take it in the first place? Oh yea no straight guy turns down sex, I read that in the comments also. So I guess that means all guys should sleep with every woman that’s willing and available, which only makes sense to desperate dudes I’m sure. Maybe some of y’all should be biblical and wait till marriage, you’d complain about that too! A minds such a terrible thing to waste! Enough!!
The last category of negro is the she made me wait too long type. If you’re not down to wait from the beginning then why do you? Most if not all women are going to tell you they’re following the 90 day rule, waiting till marriage or whatever so after that the choice is yours. If you can’t wait you have plenty of other options, get with the “fast” chick as some of y’all put it. In my experience quality women are going to wait until they’re sure about the man and if they deem him to be worthy they’ll adjust whatever rule it is they have. If not they’ll put you on “ice” meaning let you take them out, conversate, give you a trial run where at the end they’ll either give you some, decide to stay solo, or have found someone else while stalling you.
If you go right in and every conversation is about sex or her body of course you’re gonna have to wait longer. Women aren’t dumb (at least most aren’t). Make a woman smile, feel special, have some style about yourself. Sex should be a natural thing so if the vibe is right there’s no timetable for it. Sometimes people just click and if that happens being the man you should just lead and move forward and if she’s not the one for you that shouldn’t depend solely on how quick she gave it up or how long she made you wait.
Some of y’all really seem like school on a Sunday, no class! I can’t blame women for how they react to you. The ratio from women to men is ridiculous so if you can’t get whatever it is you’re seeking it’s on you period! Just because you have a job, 2 arms, 2 legs, and all your teeth doesn’t mean you’re a “good man”. Women have different definitions of what that is and who they are looking for, but it starts with the man and his approach. Since Adam & Eve in the garden it hasn’t been hard, but it seems like some of you wouldn’t have “scored” then either…..
But I appreciate and congratulate all the men that fall in these categories because you make the rest of us look even better!
I can hear Florida from Goodtimes yelling “damn, damn, damn!!” just looking at some of y’all…
”If you’re having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 Problem but a bish ain’t one!!” – Jay Z