Went and saw “Act like a lady think like a man” the other day.. Awesome movie by the way.. Anyway the whole basis of Meagan Good‘s character in the movie was the 90 Day Plan.. I’m celibate but even I have been affected by Steve Harvey’s snitch book.. When I start dating again, I’m definitely introducing the 90 Day Plan.. The thing is before when I dated I was looking for a boyfriend. This time I’m looking for a husband.. Not to say that I didn’t turn down two proposals with rings but at the time I just wasn’t ready for that type of commitment.
But the thing is about the 90 Day rule is that when I’m attracted to a man I’m attracted to him.. It’s almost like a no hold barred I’m ready thingy.. So while I have this gorgeous man with brushed in waves and a six pack in my face who treats me like a princess I’m supposed to hold out for 90 days because???
Because if I don’t it messes up the game.. A man has to work at something in order to find value in it.. This doesn’t apply to all men, but it does apply to most..
So, I really wrote this post to be nosey.. All I want to know is how is that 90 Day Plan working out for you? Did he put a ring on it? Did you fall in love with her while she was making you wait? Spill the beans!!! I want to hear the truth..
That means COMMENT people.. Especially you facebook people.. I be having 99 comments on my Facebook Fanpage but none on the blog since my comment importer no longer works..
Man, why is Steve Harvey hating on bloggers though? I have a life.. I be in Vegas doing the darn thing..
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HOW IS THE 90 DAY RULE WORKING FOR YOU?
I lasted about a hour…. j/k
Peace of cake!!
Before I got married it was pretty simple for me. Why give up the goodies to someone who hasent proven themselves to be worthy? Anything worth having is worth waiting for
Haven't*
&yes its true after 90 days the guy could still up and leave but let's be real MOST men aren't gonna put in time like that just for the booty when they can get it elsewhere and IF he does, atleast you know you didn't sell yourself cheap.
Funny my relationship is different but we did do something like that. I have to say it put things in perspective. I think there are a few things couples can do to put things in perspective and not let things spiral out of control. I think a lot of what Steve Harvey says is dead on by the way.
At the end of the day it's all about the negotiated terms. If you are going to invoke the 90 Day scenario are YOU worthy of the wait?
S/N: As long as women pass choochie out like Skittles why would any body wait? The guy that will wait 90 days is the guy it didn't matter to anyway………..IMO.
I myself haven't seen the movie… But if what I'm understanding is true… ALOTTA feelings are going to get HURT!
I loved the movie it was great. To make a long story short have some standards.