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I was reading an article on Esquire about women who don’t perform well in bed.. But the thing is the article was written by a man who admits to being subpar himself in bed. IF you yourself are subpar in bed, how are you to write an article telling women that they themselves don’t perform well?
Lately it seems like society is so okay with inadequacies that the people who are in control and putting out information are also inadequate so nothing is getting fixed.
I’ve never had a sex partner that would say that I was anything other then great in bed. To me this should be a standard response for everyone. I know I’m equipped with this little radar and I can tell before I have sex with a man if it’s going to be bomb or not. If that radar doesn’t say BOMB, I don’t go forward.. Not to say that the Bomb didn’t blow like it was supposed to a few times.. But those two times the guys just had performance anxiety problems because I was too cute to be having sex with them.. But they got it right the 2nd time around. Then another time I purposely had relations with a man that no bombs were going off with, (He was a nice guy) I stopped him in the middle.. I just couldn’t do it.. It didn’t feel right and I had no interest in pleasing him or putting it on him..
Now say I would have jumped into a relationship with Mr. No Bomb Drop. That would then be my fault my sex life sucks. I don’t think you should blame your partner when your sex life sucks.. Because if you were really all that attracted to them you yourself would ensure that sex was amazing.. But when it comes to women they pick mates for mainly financial reasons so they may not necesarily be turned on enough to try to please their mate.. If you ask me that’s what what they get.. And they have no right to cheat in that case! I would not dare enter into a relationship with a man that doesn’t sexually please me.. What’s the point? You are only asking to have to cheat.
So if your mate is just laying in bed like a cadaver then perhaps you should find a new mate who is actually intimately attracted to you. Or just perhaps you are the actual problem because your performance sucks…
Have you ever stayed in a relationship despite the sex being horrible.. Why?