I was reading an article on Esquire about women who don’t perform well in bed.. But the thing is the article was written by a man who admits to being subpar himself in bed. IF you yourself are subpar in bed, how are you to write an article telling women that they themselves don’t perform well?
Lately it seems like society is so okay with inadequacies that the people who are in control and putting out information are also inadequate so nothing is getting fixed.
I’ve never had a sex partner that would say that I was anything other then great in bed. To me this should be a standard response for everyone. I know I’m equipped with this little radar and I can tell before I have sex with a man if it’s going to be bomb or not. If that radar doesn’t say BOMB, I don’t go forward.. Not to say that the Bomb didn’t blow like it was supposed to a few times.. But those two times the guys just had performance anxiety problems because I was too cute to be having sex with them.. But they got it right the 2nd time around. Then another time I purposely had relations with a man that no bombs were going off with, (He was a nice guy) I stopped him in the middle.. I just couldn’t do it.. It didn’t feel right and I had no interest in pleasing him or putting it on him..
Now say I would have jumped into a relationship with Mr. No Bomb Drop. That would then be my fault my sex life sucks. I don’t think you should blame your partner when your sex life sucks.. Because if you were really all that attracted to them you yourself would ensure that sex was amazing.. But when it comes to women they pick mates for mainly financial reasons so they may not necesarily be turned on enough to try to please their mate.. If you ask me that’s what what they get.. And they have no right to cheat in that case! I would not dare enter into a relationship with a man that doesn’t sexually please me.. What’s the point? You are only asking to have to cheat.
So if your mate is just laying in bed like a cadaver then perhaps you should find a new mate who is actually intimately attracted to you. Or just perhaps you are the actual problem because your performance sucks…
Have you ever stayed in a relationship despite the sex being horrible.. Why?
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waw! falling .b…..T or what? 18157
Some women suck and not in a good way
What's NEW…
If she's concerned about financial stability when we're having sex and that's the reason she can't be pleased or perform to the best of her abilities, then she needs to be a prostitute because that's basically what she's gearing herself as. If we're going to have sex that's the only thing we need to be focused on. I aim to please you, you aim to please me, that's it. Let's get
busy, get a couple of nuts, and move on with life!
Glad somebody said it, lol, naw but for real thats a big reason why dudes cheat, not a good reason but its the truth. A man should be able to tell the truth but hey most are a lil challenged, lol, but if he knew it wasnt good at first then he shoulda said no! Smdh, lol, this one is hilarious, lol
That goes for men too, they aren't as good as think lol. Talking about they have never had any complaints. Well the woman probably didn't want to hurt your feelings.
That goes for men too, they aren't as good as they think lol. Talking about they have never had any complaints. Well the woman probably didn't want to hurt your feelings.
@ Marquace, that goes for the men as well.
yes I am… damn it! ………lol… but no 4real
"Well the woman probably didn't want to hurt your feelings."
Or she's checking her tongue until payday.
Right a man wrote the article…
I feel like it should say Kissy is not as good in bed as she thought she was…
I bet kissy can handle hers, but some women think because they own the prize, that's enough. Or maybe they just don't have that much experience. I really don't think, it's good for anyone to be lazy in that area.
I didn't want to write this cause I actually Don't like people discussing me. But I could not believe they let him write that article..
u know what im talkin abiut boo boo
god i love any reason to say boo boo
as long as a person man or woman is NOT on drugs or medication, they can go hard in bed 4.1.12
good
You are a little touched Kiss! lol