“The desire to be in control and decide everything myself as much as possible gets in the way of things.
“The fact that I can act a little bossy has ruined quite a few dates. I choose the restaurant, I open the door myself, sometimes I’ll even pay the bill. I really have to learn to let a man be a gentleman.
Tyrese says black women are going to independent their way to lonliness
“That’s probably one of the reasons why I’m single. I get in the way of myself when it comes to men.”
This completely sounds ludicrous to me because Kelly is famous and rich.. Everyone knows she is successful. She has nothing to prove. A man dating her already knows that she doesn’t need him for anything. He knows that she is independent. So what is the point? How can you not like a man treating you nicely and being a gentleman. If you like Kelly I guess you had better get to thuggin.
Here comes another Kissy rant :
Recently I went to a club and met a very handsome, young, italian man. He had a high ponytail and was dressed very fashionable. Upon glancing at him you could tell that he was from a foreign country.. His leather man bag probably gave away a good hint too. Anyway this man was so charming and endearing towards me. He bought me and my girls drinks, kissed my hand about 30 times, told me I was just so amazingly beautiful about 20 times. Kissed my cheek about 10 times, held my purse while we danced. Walked me to the ladies room and got in front and made sure he cleared space for me to get through all of the people. His time with me would of made me feel like I was the only girl in the world, if I was a normal girl who had never experienced this before. When it was time to leave he even walked me to the coat check, took my ticket and got my coat for me and helped me put my coat on before bidding me goodbye.
I felt like a lady and smiled the whole night. Now we are at a club, so I’m not dumb as to his intentions behind everything. But the thing is it would be nice to actually date a man that did those simple things and was catering and charming towards me.. When I do find black men who do those things they are usually cornballs. The handsome, tall, six pack men usually don’t do these things…
I have come to learn that this is the type of treatment that I like. The thing is that I have been treated like this so often by non black men that i kind of get bored when black men don’t treat me the same.. It’s like I’m asking for too much.. Others feel like everyone kisses my butt so they should do just the opposite… The little things count for so much. If a man isn’t going to completely adore me I’m just not interested.. I’m starting to feel like maybe I’m too spoiled or something..
Anyway, What do you think of Kelly’s statement?
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Oh Please!we all know that the reason Kelly is still single, is because she is a dark skinned female and has rarely dated outside her race..same thing to Brandy..Dark skinned black women are not considered as attractive to black men because most black men HATE themselves and therefore cannot stand to look into the mirror and accept who they are..they then marry and date lighter skinned women in hopes of washing away that very element that defines them.
Its an interesting dynamic,rather than promote the blackness and the black culture by being proud of who you are..they graviatte towards white and light skinned black women to erase their blackness,and yet they speak about “equality of races” how can you expect the whites to respect you if you don’t love nor respect your own women..
Black women need to STEP OUT and date white guys,date outside your race..as a very dark skinned and PROUD black woman, I date outside my race..I started doing that a WHILE BACK when I was 20 and Im 25 now..because for me I realized that I want to be with a man who thinks Im beautiful and I don’t have to prove anything more..the relationship drama and issues happen as in anything else..but at least I don’t have to worry that I am not light enough etc. Matter of fact MOST white men don’t really know what the bloody difference is from a black woman who is dark or light skinned..I have dated countless whites and I ALWAYS ask them if they can tell the difference between me and a mixed girl etc.To them we are all BLACK..so why do we create self-hatred by perpetuating the dark skinned girl to be less attractive?*sigh*
Kissy DATE OUTSIDE your race..forget these mofo black men who are fishing to erase their blackness..I woke up and smelled the coffee a long time ago and now..I NEVER complain or bitch about what black men do when they date..matter of fact I don’t even stare coz damn as much as I aint attracted to them,they aint attracted to me so its a mutual unsaid understanding..so watch me date and walk with my 6’5 blonde blue eyed cutie who loves me for who I am with my dark skinned black ass which beautiful just as it is…I am 100% in support of interracial dating!Thats my RANT
At least she’s honest about why she’s single
tell her hollar at me, i will fuck her up!
Being single is a lot wiser than being in a wrong relationship based on lies. Im single happy concetrating on what matters most.
Ghetto
She got NEW Breasts, and now she’s bold.
How I wish she marry a Nigeria….ahha
Wow Ladies I have to say this ” A man can find A man why can’t you? Now Kelly Rowland saying ” She is too bossy and still not being mature enough to change that about her tells u alot No real man is gone have A woman his partner telling him things like he is 10 But it is what it is.
I’m single just because I don’t want to be with a girl that doesn’t care about me.
Soon as I thought thugs were on their way out. Now sistas gonna copy her ignorant shit. I hope she gets one and that nigga breaks both her jaws! Then I want her to sing “motivation”.
Kevin Alexander So you are calling BS, on her excuse? Honestly I always feel like something is CLEARLY wrong with these famous women who can’t find a man. It’s like you are not broke, your career is great. You have access to hundreds and thousands of men yet you are single…..
Kevin Alexander So you are calling BS, on her excuse? Honestly I always feel like something is CLEARLY wrong with these famous women who can’t find a man. It’s like you are not broke, your career is great. You have access to hundreds and thousands of men yet you are single…..
That’s why she lonely!
That’s why she lonely!
As least she is honest.
As least she is honest.
@Kissy, if you put a mink coat on a trash can the can is still trash.
@Kissy, if you put a mink coat on a trash can the can is still trash.
See what happens to the girls when they stay in the Church too long. They rebel. Now all that church teaching is gone out of the window. She wants and needs someone to get in Hard and Deep.
See what happens to the girls when they stay in the Church too long. They rebel. Now all that church teaching is gone out of the window. She wants and needs someone to get in Hard and Deep.
Yes I mean We all have to look at ourselves and make changes if our attitude is keeping us in A position we do not like As for Kelly Rowland She will get what she has coming to her sad but true I get tired of people finding reasons to justify the BS they do
Hallie Berry, Vivica Fox and countless others can’t find or keep A man with handcuffs that means something is wrong with them cause not every dude is A sorry knucklehead
If she dont mind being alone, then let her. its plenty of men waiting 2 catch a fool & dont mind giving her exactly what she is looking 4! apparently she havent met the Right One that will take her ass 2 school & she couldnt beg or pay him 2 leave. be Careful what u ask 4, she just might get more than she can handle!
Smh she needs to check tha attitude
No man wants a bossy girl. That is a turn off to me.
It’s takes a helluva person to make an independent woman realize it’s ok to relax…
Anna K Root You are right about that….
but she cn be independent and let aman be agentleman-common sence.perhaps she lacked a male figure in her upbringing(common with women who grewup with single independent mothers)
ummm yeah on kelly.
No Kissy you're NOT spoiled. These things are so simple and effortless if you care enough to do them. They should be done. PERIOD.
No Kissy you’re NOT spoiled. These things are so simple and effortless if you care enough to do them. They should be done. PERIOD.
@Anna it sure does!!! That’s why it’s gonna take someone secure enough with himself to handle her. It’s gonna take one helluva detective to find him.