“The desire to be in control and decide everything myself as much as possible gets in the way of things.
“The fact that I can act a little bossy has ruined quite a few dates. I choose the restaurant, I open the door myself, sometimes I’ll even pay the bill. I really have to learn to let a man be a gentleman.
Tyrese says black women are going to independent their way to lonliness
“That’s probably one of the reasons why I’m single. I get in the way of myself when it comes to men.”
This completely sounds ludicrous to me because Kelly is famous and rich.. Everyone knows she is successful. She has nothing to prove. A man dating her already knows that she doesn’t need him for anything. He knows that she is independent. So what is the point? How can you not like a man treating you nicely and being a gentleman. If you like Kelly I guess you had better get to thuggin.
Here comes another Kissy rant :
Recently I went to a club and met a very handsome, young, italian man. He had a high ponytail and was dressed very fashionable. Upon glancing at him you could tell that he was from a foreign country.. His leather man bag probably gave away a good hint too. Anyway this man was so charming and endearing towards me. He bought me and my girls drinks, kissed my hand about 30 times, told me I was just so amazingly beautiful about 20 times. Kissed my cheek about 10 times, held my purse while we danced. Walked me to the ladies room and got in front and made sure he cleared space for me to get through all of the people. His time with me would of made me feel like I was the only girl in the world, if I was a normal girl who had never experienced this before. When it was time to leave he even walked me to the coat check, took my ticket and got my coat for me and helped me put my coat on before bidding me goodbye.
I felt like a lady and smiled the whole night. Now we are at a club, so I’m not dumb as to his intentions behind everything. But the thing is it would be nice to actually date a man that did those simple things and was catering and charming towards me.. When I do find black men who do those things they are usually cornballs. The handsome, tall, six pack men usually don’t do these things…
I have come to learn that this is the type of treatment that I like. The thing is that I have been treated like this so often by non black men that i kind of get bored when black men don’t treat me the same.. It’s like I’m asking for too much.. Others feel like everyone kisses my butt so they should do just the opposite… The little things count for so much. If a man isn’t going to completely adore me I’m just not interested.. I’m starting to feel like maybe I’m too spoiled or something..
Anyway, What do you think of Kelly’s statement?