I recently had the most interesting mind stimulating, intriguing encounter with an A1 personality.
First of all i treat others with as much respect as i can. I was raised pretty good. I am currently in a relationship that recently hasn’t been going too well. I understand relationships do go through there peaks and valleys. The main reason has been because of trust issues. Honesty and loyalty are top of my priority list. I have never given her a reason not to trust but she seems to feel like i will cheat or am susceptible to cheating. I make efforts to tell her things that will ease that fear but that is getting quite old. I’m just to the point where i feel like whats the point?!Basically i feel like I’ve shown her over and over that my intentions are serious.
Anyway we have been through a lot we have done the long distance thing where i was away on business for months at a time. I recently left out of town for work to Vegas and yes…….pussy has been thrown left and right….which doesn’t phase me. It happens you know i’m just blessed… But last night this woman actually made me forget about all of that for about an hour and a half. I like this woman. Nothing happen.
This woman was very beautiful, smart, doing quite well for herself. This hasn’t really happen to me before. Rather or not this woman is really interested in me wasn’t the issue. The issue for me was i know this time if me and this woman really wanted to take it that far i would have definitely gone through with it. Is that a sign that i should tell my girlfriend to kick rocks?
I would first like to tell you that the grass is not always greener on the other side.
What happened in Vegas was that you met a woman who filled a void that you were unaware of up until that point. With your twice mention of mental stimulation with the Vegas chick it is pretty obvious that your current girlfriend does not provide you with that type of stimulation. You now realize that you desire it.
Like you said, your girlfriend was already well aware that you would be open to being stimulated by another woman. So she was right. But why does she feel this way?
Are you displaying unfaithful signs? Quite possibly if you are traveling all of the time and away from her for months at a time she feels like your sexual needs have to be met somehow. Or she could truly have issues of insecurity because she deep down feels like she is not up to par with you and/or may not be providing you with your needs as a man.
It’s obvious the fact that the Vegas lady mentally stimulating you for an hour really had quite an effect on you. Her rare combination of beauty and brains excited you.
You realized that you were missing something in your relationship. And now that you have gotten a taste of it you are ready to go after it.
You have a good chick at home but destiny revealed that you can have a great chick. Sometimes people are good but not good enough. So you have to ask yourself if you want good or good enough? Whichever you choose just remember life is too short to be unhappy.
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