For the most part in talking with good men who leave their wives for younger women the women simply get comfortable and forget to show them the respect and admiration that a man needs. As women age, they become calmer and their sex drive decreases. Not all the time do their bodies get out of shape, because the majority of wives these days do keep their body up to par.
It’s more about the emotional disconnection that is felt. You have a lot of older men who are hung, perform well, look good, dress well and treat their woman and family well. After 12 years of doing this their wife simply has gotten comfortable and forgets to tell her husband that he is attractive, sexy and that he is awesome. She may be in menopause and no longer desiring to have sex as often. Her energy decreases, meanwhile the husband still has the energy of a 22 year old. He still wants to live and have a good time. Preferably with his wife, but she is not interested. She let’s him to to outings alone, although he often asks her to come along for the fun. The men become comfortable with this situation up until they suddenly meet some young, hot chick who is smiling at them, looking up to them and telling them how handsome they are.
That’s along with the new flesh turning them on. While men are visual creatures, beauty alone is simply not enough to keep a man’s interest. A man must have a emotional and intellectual connection with his mate.
Once a woman captures a man after a few years she should actually become everything that the younger men don’t seem to desire in a woman. Her feminine essence should be turned up to the max. She should dress well, smell good, work out, stop wearing homely outfits, change her appearance occassionally if possible. Do sexy things for him and surprise him, besides doing your normal wifely duties.. Especially you bishes that are being well taken care of and don’t have to work hard like the rest of us.
If you no longer desire to have sex with him, simply fake it and look up some organics to use to increase your sex drive. Your husband 15 years later should still be told that he has the best d!ck in the world. He should feel like he is the man. Often times we expect men to surprise us with outings, but he would also like to be surprised to.
Find a activity besides the kids that you can share together. Alone time between just you and him are important. Silly games like Monopoly and scrabble can be so much fun.
Halle Berry, may be a bad example for a how to keep a man happy article, but she is the image of a mature woman that will still get a man going.
I think it’s lame to play card games in order to get into sexual deviations that you might not normally do. But if you must use the cards. But frankly you should be googling ways to turn him on and keep him happy to begin with. There is always a new technique that you can learn. Stop with all those lady like ways in the bed. You should most definitely be a freak to the maximum. Have a glass of wine to loosen up. Keep a fresh supply of lingerie.. Minimize the toy playing and masturbating. Keep the juices all stored up so that you will ravish him when the time comes. Wake him up in the morning with a surprise on occasion. Let him feel free to tell you what he really wants without judging him.
Women should also find a hobby outside of their husband and kids. It keeps a woman interesting when she has something to do.
Women who have good men who stick by them for 15 years without cheating should definitely appreciate that man. Appreciate him by making efforts to keep him happy because you know darn well you don’t want him to dump you and make you go back into the lousy dating pool.
If you are not doing your wifely duties, you have no right to get mad when he seeks out happiness and pleasure from someone else. It’s your job to make sure the lines of communication stay open. You should always be up to date with what he needs.
No matter how independent we become our who evolved women become we must not forget that our job by nature is to take care of a man. No matter how far you get up the corporate ladder or how old you are your man still needs to be pleased.
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hI kISSY!! cANT WAIT TO READ THE COMMENTS ON THIS 1!!!!
hmmmm if he left his wife for a younger woman does that define him as being good?
I think how women are emotion based.. men are more physical. If she cant crank the car … does she need to drive it ?? Just a statement. Im not saying one way or the other. But eventually he gonna want a lil extra. I think some women try to ration men off when they get older. Thats def a mistake !
not sayin i would do it, but the main reason is becuz after a while u get tired of the same ol same an a new young girl comes up an you show her new things becuz hopefully u got ur money right an can floss around she will fall for you an make ur life easier than hearing bitchin n bitchin from ur ol lady
if they are…THEY STUPID ASK HELL!!!
They want something new.
Stupidity and Viagra. Why is Al Sharpton with Lisa Raye dont he know she a gold digger
Ha ha! last i heard only the “Shadow” knew what “evil lurks in the hearts of men” the truth is a marriage is of 2 people and if one wants to move on then the other just needs to deal with it. No judgement necessary, it is what it is. And who are we to bash him for it? Nip, tuck, cougar and move on! LOL
older women complain and whine all the time. they dont make being married fun. they make it feels more like weight on your back than being “in love”. men like getting “i love you” calls when they are at work, they knowing that they got something to look forward to bing with when they get home. they dont like being reminded how much money they have to pay for this and that. kinda like that chris rock movie “i think i love my wife” after chris took the viagra and went to bed with his dick rock hard. instead of fuckin his brains out, his wife freaked out. had it been me: my wife kicking me off the bed just for being horny, i confess i wouldve left her ass. no sense staying married to a woman you cant enjoy life AND SEX with.
Start with a youngster to begin with! No, jk, I’ve seen some older bodies run circles around some younger ones!
He’s not mature enough. He lusting her no more. And after he takes what he wants. He dumped her. Phuck who need a weak guy like that. Woman needs someone to be her soul mate.
Selfish but True..
Welcome to “eek-wallet-ee”, ‘ladies’.
Thats nasty
Point blank. Men like sexy youthful women. Many women take that for granted. They figure love is all you need. Not so simple.
i have no wife yet but if i get married i will spent my whole life with my beautiful wife without any troubles insha allah
Not selfish sometimes they just fall out of love with their wives & want something new!
Because yal get old and get to talkn too much shit
the women who passionatly love to suck dick has a 80% chance to keep their man.
till death do you apart lol
I think it’s a combination of a few things…young’un is stroking his ego and making him feel wanted. While wifey has to deal with the house the kids and all the other things that bring stress. So young’un looks good. Wifey is angry because she doesn’t get the attention from him that she wants so she withholds the loving and bam….free ticket for him to roam free. Selfish yes, but just the way society has allowed it to go down.
whats crazy is younger men typically want older women and older men typically want younger women…….it has to be psychological
Maybe something new & young might revive an old buzzard for a good hard second! But when the engine conks out it’s over!
That don’t last forever. It’s all about the money. Why would a young sista skip over a morris chestnut lookin brotha for someone like Al Sharpton? Old men paying for that young stuff. Take viagra away; u will see less of young and old.
He Needs To Feel More Youthful, So He Trade His Faithful Wife In For A Younger Model… Sometime It Works Out & Sometimes It Doesn’t. But, After The Love Has Lost Its Shine… What Does He Really Have.
this one is easy menapause,amplified crazy some older women just lose it..
WTF….@ Wright Thomas: Is what you just explained society driven?? Stop blaming the society for everything or you want a bill on this too??
U dont know..ump11.16
U dont know..ump11.16
they only doing it….cuz they CAN….if no young women wanted his ass, he’d be home dealing wt the woman who married his dum ass…
Kissy you are fucking hilarious!