For the most part in talking with good men who leave their wives for younger women the women simply get comfortable and forget to show them the respect and admiration that a man needs. As women age, they become calmer and their sex drive decreases. Not all the time do their bodies get out of shape, because the majority of wives these days do keep their body up to par.
It’s more about the emotional disconnection that is felt. You have a lot of older men who are hung, perform well, look good, dress well and treat their woman and family well. After 12 years of doing this their wife simply has gotten comfortable and forgets to tell her husband that he is attractive, sexy and that he is awesome. She may be in menopause and no longer desiring to have sex as often. Her energy decreases, meanwhile the husband still has the energy of a 22 year old. He still wants to live and have a good time. Preferably with his wife, but she is not interested. She let’s him to to outings alone, although he often asks her to come along for the fun. The men become comfortable with this situation up until they suddenly meet some young, hot chick who is smiling at them, looking up to them and telling them how handsome they are.
That’s along with the new flesh turning them on. While men are visual creatures, beauty alone is simply not enough to keep a man’s interest. A man must have a emotional and intellectual connection with his mate.
Once a woman captures a man after a few years she should actually become everything that the younger men don’t seem to desire in a woman. Her feminine essence should be turned up to the max. She should dress well, smell good, work out, stop wearing homely outfits, change her appearance occassionally if possible. Do sexy things for him and surprise him, besides doing your normal wifely duties.. Especially you bishes that are being well taken care of and don’t have to work hard like the rest of us.
If you no longer desire to have sex with him, simply fake it and look up some organics to use to increase your sex drive. Your husband 15 years later should still be told that he has the best d!ck in the world. He should feel like he is the man. Often times we expect men to surprise us with outings, but he would also like to be surprised to.
Find a activity besides the kids that you can share together. Alone time between just you and him are important. Silly games like Monopoly and scrabble can be so much fun.
I think it’s lame to play card games in order to get into sexual deviations that you might not normally do. But if you must use the cards. But frankly you should be googling ways to turn him on and keep him happy to begin with. There is always a new technique that you can learn. Stop with all those lady like ways in the bed. You should most definitely be a freak to the maximum. Have a glass of wine to loosen up. Keep a fresh supply of lingerie.. Minimize the toy playing and masturbating. Keep the juices all stored up so that you will ravish him when the time comes. Wake him up in the morning with a surprise on occasion. Let him feel free to tell you what he really wants without judging him.
Women should also find a hobby outside of their husband and kids. It keeps a woman interesting when she has something to do.
Women who have good men who stick by them for 15 years without cheating should definitely appreciate that man. Appreciate him by making efforts to keep him happy because you know darn well you don’t want him to dump you and make you go back into the lousy dating pool.
If you are not doing your wifely duties, you have no right to get mad when he seeks out happiness and pleasure from someone else. It’s your job to make sure the lines of communication stay open. You should always be up to date with what he needs.
No matter how independent we become our who evolved women become we must not forget that our job by nature is to take care of a man. No matter how far you get up the corporate ladder or how old you are your man still needs to be pleased.