29 Oct 2011
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THE SQUAD!!!
This is for the confident, intelligent, charismatic gentleman that doesn’t feel the need to be in a committed relationship at the present moment or this can be adjusted for the confident lady that wants to reap ALL the benefits of a NSA (No strings attatched) lifestyle…
Everyone talks about the lack of “good” men, that women outnumber the men, and how women are often left searching for their equal. My question is if you’re a “good” man why would you settle for ONE woman when the odds are in your favor? What reason would you have not to have a SQUAD? I don’t mean like 20-30 women but at least a good starting 5!
Here’s the blueprint:
The ALL-STAR (s):
You wanna start with your ALL-STAR, because this the cornerstone of your team and the one you spend the most time with. She gotta be RIGHT!!!! And possess most if not all the qualities you would seek if you were gonna make her the main chick. Hell this is the MVP, so if she sticks around long enough she has the most potential to one day make it to wife material when and if you ever wanna slow down. She looks good, is intelligent, and a head turner. She could have any man wife her but she met you first, you put it down and now she’s not going anywhere anytime soon. She’s beautiful so you treat her good but you can’t over compliment her like all the other dudes, your angle has to be way different! Make her laugh, say off the wall stuff to her out of the blue, be unpredictable. You have to do something special for her regularly, like send flowers or take her on a vacation or two. For her to stick around you gotta at least make her feel like the main chick, telling her you love her & she’s the ONE regularly (make her feel “special”). Occasionally or often (depending on the woman) these players WILL become disillusioned with the team and it’s goals and you WILL have to Woo her back with something special, that shows them they are st*rs of the team! A big ticket item or trip has to be budgeted within the salary cap for unexpected outbursts! The st*rs need to be kept happy because you can’t win a title without them!
Now for the remaining women you have a lot of slack on how to handle your player rotation. You can try having two or three all stars (Miami Heat style) and run your team that way on your championship run or keep it low key and just get some role players. Going for the title could get complicated as the all stars might compete to be the MVP instead of playing their positions thus creating problems with cohesion & team chemistry, leaving you as a coach in a possible situation where you have to trade or cut one of them in order to stay headed for success. You have to be the Phil Jackson of your team catering to the big egos while keeping your eyes on the prize, but also have the ice cold veins that allow you to make whatever cuts are necessary for success. Pages: 1 2 3 4
46 Comments
Statement dream of a blackman Utah……….lol
Only if they are REAL good. And can afford the Challenge.
Huh aaahh noooooowaahh. A good man is a one man woman thats part of what makes him good.
Huh aaahh noooooowaahh. A good man is a one man woman thats part of what makes him good.
Yes if they Michael Jordan!! Lol
Yes if they Michael Jordan!! Lol
Black Utah…..O thats islamic….
Black Utah…..O thats islamic….
This article describes a douche bag not a good man.
How is he good if he has more than one woman????
Okay everybody is talking crazy to me right now.Wow how times have changed monogamy is history,lol..Sadfact obviously
Douche bag…….thats funny…….
If its that time of the month……changeup….
I put it like this, I would rather be 100% treated right 50% of the time then to have a significant other 100% percent of the time that treats like Iam worth 50% of her love. With the numerical of good men and women
Being so great. At some point whether she’s knows it or not all women will share her good man because other women will always want what u have too
Yes absolutely
If u aint marry…hey!
Of course its WRONG we were taught it was wrong, it MUST be wrong…Most people are conditioned to believe having more than one man/woman is “bad” or “cheating”. Imagine growing up believing it is OK or better yet imagine growing up being allowed your own opinion on the subject and ask your self how does it feel to you. Dont think about it from the perspective of your “beliefs”. How do “traditional” relationships FEEL to you? Happy? Fulfiled? Bored? Connected? Love? …what works for you may not work for everyone. The PROBLEM with most of these relationships is that they aren’t being open/honest with everyone involved giving all parties a choice wether to participate in the OPEN/HONEST relationshp or not.
If a man is honest & has more than 1 woman that doesn’t make him a douche bag
A guy just told me that he has a girlfriend and they discussed in the beginning of their relationship that he wants a third wheel involved…he then said he allowed her to make the decision to commit to it because he didnt want to cheat on her. Allowing her to know is not cheating he said……Huh? Its ridiculous! but according to the article, if the guy isn’t married and he wants to be a good man to more than one woman, she/they are the one’s who have to deal with it not me.
No. It defeats the purpose of being called a “good” man. A good man is classified in the category of having one lady and only WANTING to be with one. I mean we are naturally gonna see someone super attractive, but it doesn’t mean go get her, because you’ve been really good to this one woman. I mean if I am considered a good man to lady number 1, but get a second lady.. what makes lady two think that I wont do the same thing to her? Im just sayin..
WoW… I just read the article… I’m hurt.. SMH.. and LMAO.. If a man wants to have several women he had better be rich.
@ Todd did you read the article? He tells the MVP he loves her and she is the only one. That makes him a douche bag.
A good man is honest, confident & defines himself regardless what other ppl think… SQUAD UP FELLAZ!!!
For the future proelitist of america here and beyond…we are more smarter..and and advance than the past socialism…so a change is good sometimes….
@nicole The statement that “your the one” when there’s on you two there could be honesty & you can love more than 1 person
And i am below the average of econ value………lol
Should “good men” be defined by women? No, they shouldn’t.
So…..the rich aint the only ones that can account for something…heheha
Men shouldn’t be defined by anyone but themselves!
Exactly, Mr. Williams!
Thx Odo!!
Um, then he wouldn’t be a GOOD man!
HELLO!!!!
” No, they shouldnt have a different standard ….. or else, every dude will be fakin’ the funk just 2 get over, like soo many do anyway …… If U soo good then be exclusive/ faithful 2 your Queen — or better yet DO GOOD — and do good women a favor, stay single ….. ha!!! And, Im a good man ~ “
He can if he can accept a good woman wanting more than one man. It’s only fair!!!
Any man trying to tell another man what a good man is sounds real "sweet"! What the next man does has nothing to do with you…
Any man trying to tell another man what a good man is sounds real “sweet”! What the next man does has nothing to do with you…
If indeed, they believe their own hype, and are able to meet each woman’s needs without them missing or wanting, then I say go for it. If each still gets their time, if each still gets their loving, their attention…etc…like he can indeed divide his focus, and keep each satisfied, nothing lacking, nothing missing, nothing to have anything to speak or complain about….why not. The only time it becomes and issue, is when what she considers 100% starts to feel like 98, 88, 78, 68, 58 or even less.
Define GOOD!
Yup atleat one other
The reason i only want one, Cause Dealing with more than one woman is a headache. Women are emotional and can just change at anytime. Dealing with 5 woman that can do that is suicide. Thats like a guy getting with a woman with 9 kids.
How can a man tell another man what a good man is? What part of the game is that?
Hold up!! What’s a good man?
Everyone has their own definition of what good to them a good man or woman can’t be defined by someone not involved in the situation
I love a Honest adult relationship!! If two, three, four… consenting adults agree! Let it be.