I’ve talked to some females who’ve had the misfortune of reading and believing the myth in Steve Harvey’s book about a woman waiting 90 days before they give up the cookies.. My response? It’s your body do what you want, but why let this miscellaneous ninja dictate your decisions?
Mr. Harvey is on his 3rd marriage and his current wife is on her 3rd marriage also, so who are we following for advice on relations and relationships? When did he become such a guru? Not passing judgement but Mr. Harvey says he’s a christian but promotes the 90 day rule, while the bible states to wait until marriage for sexual relations. So unless he thinks he’s P. Diddy and remixed the bible even by his own stated beliefs this makes NO SENSE!
Who gave this ninja the keys to the cookie bag? And what formula did he use to come up with 90 days? If a guy waits 90 days, gets the cookies then dashes on the 91st day is there a point to waiting? And if that same guy waits on you what’s to say he’s not smashing something else in the meantime? Some guys will honestly wait on you *cough.. very few*, some won’t but it should be about how y’all are relating and feeling each other that determines whether you should wait 90 days or 90 seconds..
Either way there’s no guarantee of success or failure every situation is different. And any grown woman that listens to some miscellaneous ninja to determine what she does with her body needs help. I didn’t know Steve Harvey died on the cross and rose on the 3rd day, that wasn’t in my bible. But if you wanna listen to him and wait the 90 days I just hope your cookies ain’t stale and the dude is still around to reach in the bag when you open it up!