Dear Kissy:
I am married with two daughters from my previous relationship and my wife has three boys from her previous relationship. Although she has boys and I am their step father I deeply desired to have a male seed of my own. We tried twice and ended up with two more daughters. I figured my wife couldn’t have any more boys so I went out and got myself a mistress and she ended up pregnant with a boy.
Somehow my wife suddenly got pregnant and it’s also a boy. My mistress will be the first to birth my first son. I am confused on who should carry the Jr. name. my wife because we are married or my mistress because she will actually be the one to give me my first born son.
P.S. I already know that I am trifling. No need to tell me that. Just let me know which one should get the Jr. name.
Thanks Kissy
Signed,
Rich, happy, trifling and finally having sons
Dear Rich, Happy, Trifling and finally having sons,
I’m just going to stick with some facts and leave it at that. It is the male chromosome that decides the gender of the baby. It was no one’s fault but your own that you kept having girls.
Had you not went out and cheated and found yourself a bust it baby, that bust you gave to your mistress would of gone to your wife.
With that being said, your wife’s child should be named Jr.
I most certainly hope you don’t raise your son to be trifling like his daddy. Chromosome information is something you could of and should of looked up once you noticed you kept having girls…
I can only shake my head at the amount of things you wealthy men get away with… Some women will put up with anything to not have to work..
P.S. Congrats on your first born son and your first Jr… You know you could always name them Jr. #1 and Jr. #2
Kissy – Queen of Answers
I can’t get this trifling, good for nothing type of brother jingle out of my head right now. Bills would be good for you. But this will do.
No comment
The wife’s child…
Neither!!!…what an example to set for his sons,smh…a hot total mess
Neither HOHOE!!!!!!! Smh male sluts!!! How you barebacking two chicks? Just nasty……
the wife of course..
Neither cuz he cheatin’ on his wife. SMH
smh woww
smh woww
The Wife’s Child Always Carrys The Proper Name For A Child… Mistresses Are 2nd Place.
What an ass! I’m disgusted. I hope his wife finds out
Punk A$$ jr, isn’t a good name for a kid. Dumb a$$
smh… good reply Kissy!
Wife or neither
D wife cos she’s legally married,its simple n clear.mistress remains mistress whether pregnant or has given birth to triplet,shes nt married n dats it.
Neither his wife wont allow it hopefully and he cheated and no protection!!! I would just give the child his last name benefit purpose
See this is the ish that make it bad for all of us Wtw Ms Donna I agree Wtw really what are you trying to accomplish? Wth your the reason for warefare so (1) ware (2)fare cause that’s all you got unless your a superstar then its (baby 1) and (secound best )
Umm who was the fool to take your name ,should be the only fool to name her son the same! C’mon son!!smh
Lmao Prima and who eva else think that way it is sad…must be speaking from experience!!!! LMAO
I hope da wife find out very soon about ur ass
wow dude. Does your wife even know about the other woman and the other child? You need to be a man first before you think about passing on your name to ANYBODY, child or wife. Naming your children should be the last of your concerns in this whole issue.
I would say the wife,but the boys couldn’t control the circumstances they were born into…so on this one I say neither..its bad enough the mistress’ son is not going to get the same benefits as the wife son…..and in the long run the kids are gonna want an explanation..
I would say the wife,but the boys couldn’t control the circumstances they were born into…so on this one I say neither..its bad enough the mistress’ son is not going to get the same benefits as the wife son…..and in the long run the kids are gonna want an explanation..
NEITHER AND HE NEEDS TO B CALLED AN EX ASSHOLE TO BOTH OF THEM…..FUCKERY SMH
NEITHER AND HE NEEDS TO B CALLED AN EX ASSHOLE TO BOTH OF THEM…..FUCKERY SMH
Smh…the wife son should have the jr name, plain and simple. Yanique I agree with u, the mistress son is not gonna get the same benefits. Smh
Smh…the wife son should have the jr name, plain and simple. Yanique I agree with u, the mistress son is not gonna get the same benefits. Smh
if i was wife i would give my son my maiden name cuz i will be returning to it shortly…. How could he??? ~im guessing she knows, I hope so.. And the mistress im hoping the mistress didnt know he was married and willingly got pregnant by a married man..etc
if i was wife i would give my son my maiden name cuz i will be returning to it shortly…. How could he??? ~im guessing she knows, I hope so.. And the mistress im hoping the mistress didnt know he was married and willingly got pregnant by a married man..etc
your just plan nasty and you make it bad for the brothers out there trying to do right by their own. your wife gets that title,not your mistress.
your just plan nasty and you make it bad for the brothers out there trying to do right by their own. your wife gets that title,not your mistress.
Wife & Mistress!! Are we supode to have some understanding of is situation cause I sure don’t! They should both move as far away as possible and make sure that his Paycheck is tied up FOR 18 YEARS! He gotta pay for those Babies for 18 YEARS…PLUS COLLEGE!
Get to WORK!
This is the kind of shit men get into when they listen to the wrong head. The Stupid is strong with this one.
i totally agree….who n there rite mind would name a ANGEL AFTER A DOG….THE REAL QUESTION IS WHEN R U GETTING YO SHIT AND LEAVING CAUSE IM READY TO SIGN THOSE PAPERS!!!
All I can do IS SMH at this one. Seriously? Someone Actually posed this question? Really? Who is it Kissy? LOL obviously I say the wife or neither! I wouldn’t want my son taking the name of such an a-hole. And “when” not if (goes the truth will come out eventually), she is going to be livid…
I seriously do not make these questions up…..
All I can do IS SMH at this one. Seriously? Someone Actually posed this question? Really? Who is it Kissy? LOL obviously I say the wife or neither! I wouldn’t want my son taking the name of such an a-hole. And “when” not if she finds out (because the truth will come out eventually), she is going to be livid… WOW!
@Evelin Martin ~ Apparently You Don’t Know Who Comes 1st & Who Comes 2nd…
seriously both i guess or whichever son come out 1st. or do like usher and have jr 1 and jr 2
@Yvette Sumpter ~ Clearly You Can See He Was An Idiot For Not Knowing Who Gets What First…
@Evelin Martin ~ No I’m NOT Speaking From Experience Because I Have No Children… But, Perhaps You Were 2nd Child & Can’t See The Wife Always Comes FIRST.
Well obviously he is stupid and holds the mistress and wife on the same level so he should name them like michael jackson did. Smh dont ppl listen to jay z and his lyrics..#03bonnie and clyde.
lol
Wife’s son. I don’t like jr’s too much anyway. My cousin’s jr don’t look shit like him, the second son look dead on him. Give that child(ren) his own name so he can be his own peerson.
Lmao. My hubby said both kids get the jr. not like they gon grow up around each other.
@Kia Singh ~ Now, That’s A Bitch Ninja… And, Got No RESPECT For His Wife.
First Born should be the Jr.
Common sense the one born first should carry the Jr. Name.
wow and we are promoting this infdelity why kissy??? its a shame that someone would think this is cool smh
@ Nicole, they might! If wife leaves, and second best (that’s what I like to call mistresses), kick him to the curb. The kids will grow up together. Provided he don’t add deadbeat to is loser resume! Lmbofff
@Richardo Cadet ~ No One Is Promoting Infidelity… That Is A Bitch Nigger, Yes I Said It. When You Have Two Women Pregnant & Don’t Know Who Got Top Billing In These Relationships.
^ provin kissy’s point : HOES R WINNING!
Not big on Jr’s…but the son born “in wedlock” should get the name, as for the bastard child, maybe middle name or something.
I don’t think hoes r winning, people just hate hoes to win.
@Edwin Gray ~ Hoes Gotta Eat To… But, Know Your Place Hoes.
Neither one should bare his name ..they cant walk, talk or act like a prince ,when they daddy , who is suppose to be the king is the hood jester..
Lmbofff at Prima! “Know your place HOE” HAHA
the first one out naturally!
Dumb nigga doin dumb nigga shit
Crazy world crazy people..help us baby jesus.
Crazy world crazy people..help us baby jesus.
Wow! Gifted artist…useless male….& we wonder what is wrong with the world when you have these individuals that people aspire to be like….ridiculous…..
WTH!!
Which ever one he plans on spending the rest of his life with…
I’m glad he knows he’s trifilin but that’s not it a LOW down dirty scum bag! No advice
If I was him, I will be worried about having two healthy boys. Being that he’s cheating I hope everyone is getting tested for HIV.
OMG.. Lil Wayne LMAO, Not Suprised By The Situation Just Suprised By The Fact That He Choose To Even Write You On It. SMDH BOI!!
Ummm… Someone needs to club him over the head for being so stupid! How could he claim that he went out and got a mistress bc he didn’t think his wife could give him a son. He’s the one with the X and Y chromosomes!!!! He determines the sex of the child, not his wife. Neither should be a Jr and have that man’s full name stamped and spoken over their lives. ugh.
Ummm… Someone needs to club him over the head for being so stupid! How could he claim that he went out and got a mistress bc he didn’t think his wife could give him a son. He’s the one with the X and Y chromosomes!!!! He determines the sex of the child, not his wife. Neither should be a Jr and have that man’s full name stamped and spoken over their lives. ugh.
Ummm… Someone needs to club him over the head for being so stupid! How could he claim that he went out and got a mistress bc he didn’t think his wife could give him a son. He’s the one with the X and Y chromosomes!!!! He determines the sex of the child, not his wife. Neither should be a Jr and have that man’s full name stamped and spoken over their lives. ugh.
neither should get the “Jr” title,, its not gonna be fair for the older son too… only solution or choice he has is to tell his wife about it and name them both without the damn title… i cant believe he even thinks of it.
neither should get the “Jr” title,, its not gonna be fair for the older son too… only solution or choice he has is to tell his wife about it and name them both without the damn title… i cant believe he even thinks of it.
neither should get the “Jr” title,, its not gonna be fair for the older son too… only solution or choice he has is to tell his wife about it and name them both without the damn title… i cant believe he even thinks of it.
First, I have a niece and nephew that are 3 months apart. So this happens more often than you’d believe. My brother already had a jr. so that wasnt up for dicussion…HOWEVER, my boyfriend has a half brother with his same name…so…who knows…who cares.
Good grief…This is his worry…I have to wonder to wife and mistress know about each other…on second thought…I really don't care…
Good grief…This is his worry…I have to wonder to wife and mistress know about each other…on second thought…I really don’t care…
Your wife son should be Jr and u r trifling, do your wife kno about this.
#smdh
Your wife son should be Jr and u r trifling, do your wife kno about this.
#smdh
THANK YOU FOR EDUCATING THE IDIOT ABOUT HOW THE SEX IS DETERMINED! I do not believe he is 'rich', I believe that is his NAME! Richard as in DICK. SMH
THANK YOU FOR EDUCATING THE IDIOT ABOUT HOW THE SEX IS DETERMINED! I do not believe he is ‘rich’, I believe that is his NAME! Richard as in DICK. SMH