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Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last, But Punks Do


Nice-Guy-Steve-ErkelI keep hearing things about nice guys finishing last.  My younger cousin asked me: “Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women? Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy as a boyfriend, instead of a bad boy, jerk or sleazy guy?”

When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy …someone who cares and who listens” but the SAME women will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk…or a guy who doesn’t treat her well.”

What is going on there?! Are women lying when they claim to want a ‘nice’ guy? Not at all. You see, when a woman says, “I just want a nice guy” she really does mean it. However, most men and women confuse being a ‘nice guy’ with being really, really nice to a woman…and that’s where the problems begin and why most nice guys finish last with women.

In terms of “Nice Guys” there are different types. Nice Guys don’t finish last, they get PICKED Last but finish FIRST. What men and women don’t realize is that you have different types. You have nice guys who are ……… punks and Nice guys who are desired.

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WRITTEN BY: LATETHA who loves everything Usher. Follow @UsherIsKing
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52 Comments

  1. Jeff Lawrence says:

    This article is PROOF of how stupid black women are and explains why there are 80% single.

  2. Sonof Punt via Fanpage says:

    Because in some womens eyes, nice guy means nerd/punk. I honestly don’t believe women know what they want. So why ask their opinion? Be you

  3. Sonof Punt via Fanpage says:

    Because in some womens eyes, nice guy means nerd/punk. I honestly don’t believe women know what they want. So why ask their opinion? Be you

  4. How is the nerd doing-bro Urkel? 12/18/11

  5. Another great one your majesty. ;-) I had a lot more to say but as usual I deleted it …..lol

  6. I LOVE NICE GUYS, but why the sterotype? why he gotta look like urkle ROTFLMfatapplebottomOFF!!!!!!

  7. Vernon Dunbar via Fanpage says:

    You know what some guys are not as nice as they think.

  8. Vernon Dunbar via Fanpage says:

    You know what some guys are not as nice as they think.

  9. Chelly Bellee via Fanpage says:

    I want an educated man who is cultured in many different things well spoken, treats a woman like a queen, i don’t like a push over or a yes ma’am type of guy, we want a leader a strong man mentally emotionally, a leader and not afraid to.show her how much he appreciates her without feeling like he’s whipped

  10. Prima Donna from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    I LOVE A MAN Who Stands His Ground & Protect w/RESPECT…

  11. John Paul Castillo from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    I like being Mr. nice guy. ^_^

  12. they dont because they forever hiding the true them.i consider them scary cats.not being true to themselves.they should unfold everything!

  13. Brant Pettiford from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    Revenge of the nerds

  14. Shaaron Huskey Fonville from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    There r nice guys unfortunately There AlL looking for wat Us women r looking for CASH okKkkkkkkk

  15. I need me a nice guy cant seem to find any these days!!!

  16. Brant Pettiford from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    Hahahaha…….

  17. Eric Cee from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    Nice guys finish last

  18. Wynona Rosebure from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    hahahahaha @ Russell …. Hybrids are hard to fine !!!! so true!!!

  19. Interesting article I completly disagree though, the problem is like us men we wan t a freak in the bed and lady in dem streets,Yall want a thug in bed and gentleman in dem streets, Hybrids are hard to find..

  20. Tranel Alston from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    Right…no man wants to feel taken advantage of or pushed around. I figure a woman likes a guy who will listen but also put her in her place when need be. A guy who will do nice things…but not her slave.

  21. Prima Donna from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    @Ricardo Cadet ~ Sorry Brotha, I’m Thinking Like A Man & Acting Like A Lady…

  22. I am a both. If a girl doesn’t want me to be a nice guy. I will be a punk. I got walked on and pushed around just for being a nice guy. So now I’m not nice all the time. Because I don’t tolerate nobody pushing me around.

  23. Tranel Alston from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    Lol…as a former nice guy/punk….i learned that being too nice got me nowhere. Now actin like an ass sometimes….making it a challenge and having the woman feel she jus cant run over u…gets u pretty far. More of a balance is needed between the two.

  24. Vernon Dunbar from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    @Richard I was wondering the same thing LOL

  25. Good article! There is a deep message in there.

  26. Vernon Dunbar says:

    Good article! There is a deep message in there.

  27. I’m glad his article is helping someone….

  28. I’m glad his article is helping someone….

  29. im a punk because i wont play that nice guy role NO MO! LOL….WHO THE HELL WANNA FINISH LAST…i dont want the last of anything!

  30. im a punk because i wont play that nice guy role NO MO! LOL….WHO THE HELL WANNA FINISH LAST…i dont want the last of anything!

  31. Prima Donna from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    All Punks “To The Left, To The Left”… Beyonce

  32. Prima Donna from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    All Punks “To The Left, To The Left”… Beyonce

  33. Why did someone put a pic of Tyson hugging some feminine looking man?

  34. Why did someone put a pic of Tyson hugging some feminine looking man?

  35. Tranel Alston from AskKissy Facebook Fanpage says:

    That ‘challenge’ is probably what upsets the nice guys the most. Understanding women want to b challenged…but some of the challenges women gravitate to are like REALLY THO…REALLY?!! LLS! Nice article…i like i like!!!

  36. depends who you ask but on my point of view im the nicest one ever

  37. guess im a punk…i cant take it no mo….IM DONE!!

  38. Imma nice guy n sometimes a punk real talk

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