26 Sep 2011
Posted by Latetha 
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I keep hearing things about nice guys finishing last. My younger cousin asked me: “Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women? Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy as a boyfriend, instead of a bad boy, jerk or sleazy guy?”
When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy …someone who cares and who listens” but the SAME women will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk…or a guy who doesn’t treat her well.”
What is going on there?! Are women lying when they claim to want a ‘nice’ guy? Not at all. You see, when a woman says, “I just want a nice guy” she really does mean it. However, most men and women confuse being a ‘nice guy’ with being really, really nice to a woman…and that’s where the problems begin and why most nice guys finish last with women.
In terms of “Nice Guys” there are different types. Nice Guys don’t finish last, they get PICKED Last but finish FIRST. What men and women don’t realize is that you have different types. You have nice guys who are ……… punks and Nice guys who are desired.
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LOLLMAO. SHE SAID PUNK
Imma nice guy n sometimes a punk real talk
guess im a punk…i cant take it no mo….IM DONE!!
depends who you ask but on my point of view im the nicest one ever
That ‘challenge’ is probably what upsets the nice guys the most. Understanding women want to b challenged…but some of the challenges women gravitate to are like REALLY THO…REALLY?!! LLS! Nice article…i like i like!!!
WoW. Wow. Wow.. I am shaking my head….
WoW. Wow. Wow.. I am shaking my head….
Why did someone put a pic of Tyson hugging some feminine looking man?
Why did someone put a pic of Tyson hugging some feminine looking man?
its real kissy ….men are complicated too!
its real kissy ….men are complicated too!
All Punks “To The Left, To The Left”… Beyonce
All Punks “To The Left, To The Left”… Beyonce
im a punk because i wont play that nice guy role NO MO! LOL….WHO THE HELL WANNA FINISH LAST…i dont want the last of anything!
im a punk because i wont play that nice guy role NO MO! LOL….WHO THE HELL WANNA FINISH LAST…i dont want the last of anything!
I’m glad his article is helping someone….
I’m glad his article is helping someone….
Good article! There is a deep message in there.
Awesome Glad you enjoyed it.
Good article! There is a deep message in there.
Awesome Glad you enjoyed it.
@Richard I was wondering the same thing LOL
damn prima lol
Lol…as a former nice guy/punk….i learned that being too nice got me nowhere. Now actin like an ass sometimes….making it a challenge and having the woman feel she jus cant run over u…gets u pretty far. More of a balance is needed between the two.
I am a both. If a girl doesn’t want me to be a nice guy. I will be a punk. I got walked on and pushed around just for being a nice guy. So now I’m not nice all the time. Because I don’t tolerate nobody pushing me around.
@Ricardo Cadet ~ Sorry Brotha, I’m Thinking Like A Man & Acting Like A Lady…
Right…no man wants to feel taken advantage of or pushed around. I figure a woman likes a guy who will listen but also put her in her place when need be. A guy who will do nice things…but not her slave.
Interesting article I completly disagree though, the problem is like us men we wan t a freak in the bed and lady in dem streets,Yall want a thug in bed and gentleman in dem streets, Hybrids are hard to find..
hahahahaha @ Russell …. Hybrids are hard to fine !!!! so true!!!
im proud of being a nice guy yesssss
Nice guys finish last
Hahahaha…….
But I <3 Nerds
I need me a nice guy cant seem to find any these days!!!
There r nice guys unfortunately There AlL looking for wat Us women r looking for CASH okKkkkkkkk
I am a nice man.
Revenge of the nerds
they dont because they forever hiding the true them.i consider them scary cats.not being true to themselves.they should unfold everything!
I like being Mr. nice guy. ^_^
I LOVE A MAN Who Stands His Ground & Protect w/RESPECT…
I want an educated man who is cultured in many different things well spoken, treats a woman like a queen, i don’t like a push over or a yes ma’am type of guy, we want a leader a strong man mentally emotionally, a leader and not afraid to.show her how much he appreciates her without feeling like he’s whipped
i definatly agree with tis
I’m a nice guy.
You know what some guys are not as nice as they think.
You know what some guys are not as nice as they think.
I LOVE NICE GUYS, but why the sterotype? why he gotta look like urkle ROTFLMfatapplebottomOFF!!!!!!
Another great one your majesty.
I had a lot more to say but as usual I deleted it …..lol
How is the nerd doing-bro Urkel? 12/18/11
Because in some womens eyes, nice guy means nerd/punk. I honestly don’t believe women know what they want. So why ask their opinion? Be you
Because in some womens eyes, nice guy means nerd/punk. I honestly don’t believe women know what they want. So why ask their opinion? Be you
This article is PROOF of how stupid black women are and explains why there are 80% single.