I keep hearing things about nice guys finishing last. My younger cousin asked me: “Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women? Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy as a boyfriend, instead of a bad boy, jerk or sleazy guy?”
When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy …someone who cares and who listens” but the SAME women will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk…or a guy who doesn’t treat her well.”
What is going on there?! Are women lying when they claim to want a ‘nice’ guy? Not at all. You see, when a woman says, “I just want a nice guy” she really does mean it. However, most men and women confuse being a ‘nice guy’ with being really, really nice to a woman…and that’s where the problems begin and why most nice guys finish last with women.
In terms of “Nice Guys” there are different types. Nice Guys don’t finish last, they get PICKED Last but finish FIRST. What men and women don’t realize is that you have different types. You have nice guys who are ……… punks and Nice guys who are desired.