Broke Men Vs. Wealthy Men | What’s the Point of Screwing a Broke Man?
With the recent backlash of Amber Rose’s visit to Ghana to mentor young girls and the outrage that follows behind Basketball Wives Draya Michele along with the many women who defend and take up for these women. I found myself pondering a few things.
Is there something wrong with being a h0e if you gets you some millions and prosperity in the end? Or Is it better to be broke with seemingly good moral characteristics? Everyone likes a person who appears to have good morals but according to the bible if you are screwing out of wedlock you don’t have good morals.
Draya may not be book smart but she has parlayed her way into fame and fortune that allowed her to launch a new bikini line. Amber Rose may not be the most intellectually smartest woman to you but she has parlayed her relationship with Kanye into a prosperous modeling career with major companies and a unlimited amount of men who want to date her.
These women stopped screwing block dudes or dudes who say, be independent, I’m not doing anything for you a long time ago.
Some women have screwed a few wealthy men and prospered from it. They either married or received fame and fortune. Some screwed wealthy men and got a slam, bam thank you mam along with a goodbye. Other women have screwed a few broke men that netted them nothing. They loved, got their heart broken and moved on.
Does that really feel good to know that you’ve screwed 20 men and you still live in poverty or would you have preferred to screw 17 men and 3 of them had been of assistance to you so that you never have to live in poverty again?
Isn’t there a difference between how Diddy made his money screwing over artists and how Amber Rose and other women found fame and fortune by being in relationships with popular men? Draya may not have gotten a dime from any of those athletes by her association with them netted her more attention.
Some women have screwed more or less than the same amount of guys.. They just screwed men that didn’t help them progress. Instead they walked away with nothing, probably not even a “orgazm”. Can you really say that you are morally better? Who is really smarter: You or Amber?
I really want to know what’s going on in the minds of young women today. So I ask..
1. Is there a point of screwing a broke man or a man who isn’t willing to financially assist you if needed?
2. If you are a woman having financial troubles shouldn’t you think that you are too broke to be intimately active? Would it be smarter and morally better if you kept your legs closed while you worked hard to get your ish together or only opened them for men who were willing to assist you in your goals and aspirations?
3. Do women really believe that they are morally better than the chick who got paid for her liaisons when they were both morally doing the same things?
4. Lastly do women feel like it’s their responsibility to date broke men because they themselves are broke?
Let me know your thoughts ladies.. I already know the men are going to say that sex is for recreation and for bonding. But they don’t understand how hard it is to bond with a broke man.
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@Kissy ~ Women Say Men Are No Good, etc. But, When Men Call Women Bitches & Whores… They Have NO RESPECT For Woman & It’s Apparent They Have Been Dealing With The Lowest Kinda Women And What Does That Say About Those MEN… A Respectful Lady Does Not Want To HOOK With Them AT ALL.
@richard if a man is just getting by and a hoe is hoeing with him then she is 1 not a hustler 2 an ordinary hoe…the thing about ordinary hoes is that they are discrace because at the end of the day she is a broke hoe, but an extra ordinary hoe can make up for her wrong doing because people can look back and say, look! she went somewhere with her life. For example Trina is an example of an extra ordinary hoe, also eve because they had a vision!
A bitch can fuck a thousand rich men and still walk away broke….its about the bitchs understanding and mentality before she fucks that will determine the win or lose after the fuck…stupid is what stupid does….
Whoa…
A bitch can fuck a thousand rich men and still walk away broke….its about the bitchs understanding and mentality before she fucks that will determine the win or lose after the fuck…stupid is what stupid does….
Whoa…
Beverly what kind of phone are you on?
I’m not gone be able to do it.
Lol! Can’t open the article from my phone but the title is funny!
Prima, U are so right, U should always have a plan. Am back in school myself,its an on going process to make yourself better in life. My point was I can’t get with someone in their 30s and up , just figuring out they need a plan. @ that age they should be at certain level. #as long as we are living we should always have a plan.
Everybody is throwing the term “broke” around. Can somebody define broke? Because as I see it, a man or woman can have a job and able to take of themselves but not have extra to do the things you hear that rich people do. Does that lessen a man or womans value?
I agree, what is one’s definition of broke?
@Invictus Trice ~ Yes, You Have A Choice With NO MONEY It’s Called Educating Yourself Via The Internet… What Can You Not Learn On The Internet Today. Unless, You Can’t Pay The Cable Bill or Telephone Bill I Thought You Might Ask ~ The Library Is FREE.
@KC Kev Myers ~ BINGO Now You KNOW Exactly How We Feel…LOL
@Lakeisha Owens ~ You NEVER To Old To Have A Plan In Place… Some People Go Back To College At 60 or Older.
@ Krissy…I wrote this as my status a couple days ago got a lot of women liking it a and a few men but the men who didn’t..lol..omg..here it is:..”I hate a man who is broke and has nothing to offer..NOW seriously tell me what your purpose around me will be CAUSE love sure don’t pay my bills..I could NOT care less how good you look or how much swagga you have…come correct or don’t come at all!!…been there done that!!!”…I have a good job and studying too but I will be damned if i have a broke man in my life EVER again!!
It should depend on, if he plans on staying broke.
Everybody commits some type evil to get to the top, I could honestly say it is not OK to be a hoe if you’re doing it just to brake a man and be broke again the next day. I say it is okay to be a hoe if you will be at the top because once you get their your hoeish ways will be forgiven.
If ur a broke chick do u have a choice?
@ Prima, u saying a man have to have a plan if he is broke. True only if he’s really young. I’m not sure how old the rest of the women are but am 30+ am not waiting for 30+ and 40+ man to get their self together. when u between 18 to early 20s, that is more acceptable but at our age it shouldn’t be like that. What can a broke man do for me, honestly? When the bills need to be paid and there’s no money. The love will start fading. # Love first with goals in life. Make it a package deal.
@Kissy I never inferred Diddy laid on his back to get paid…that was your connection not mine!! My point is I don’t think I’m alone in this view that success should be measured on your skill & intuition! You aligning yourself with the right peope is all well & good as long as you have something to offer the world…..getting rich & famous by association with someone else who is rich & famous in their own right is weak!! There are plenty of good looking people in the world who are just doing them & are not superficially dependant on adulation!!!
I Have To Really LOVE That Man Who Is Broke. But, He Has To Have A Plan… No Plan, No Time For You.
What’s the point in having sex with a “broke” woman!..LOL..
I knew this bad ass chick back in the days. She wouldn’t give me the time of day. She got with this drug dealer, and I must say he was paid, well she lived it up for years and had 4 kids with him. Well he got killed and the well dried up. She never did anything to better herself and ended up on welfare. She looks horrible now. When I see her and she says hi, I keep on walking. Moral of the story……..you figure it out.
Well there you have it to the men who say women only want money these days.. Some women still screw for love and don’t care if you don’t have any money.. So it’s out there.. Or at least that is what they say until……
Nicole that is a good answer, but from these answers people are saying they choose to date poor because they believe that is a better moral choice.
@Kissy ~ I So Agree With Your Above Statement… 100%
@ Kissy, I understand exactly what you are saying. “The people in your life have to align with your goals.”
Jason Diddy didn’t lay on his back to get to where he is at. Instead he stepped on people’s backs to get to where he is at. My real point of this thread if to show people that no matter what they want in life they have to align themselves with people who will help them meet goals.. IF a woman wants to get married she has to date a man that wants to get married. She can not date a guy who wants to be a bachelor.
If a woman wants to live comfortably she has to date a man who also wants to live comfortably. Even if a woman is doing ok for herself, dealing with a broke man will eventually drain her no matter how much she loves him.
The people in your life has to align with your goals. It’s not about money. It’s about goals and personal choices. If your mate is not in alignment with your goals you may have to let go.
Isn’t the endless pursuit of financial stability via laying on her preverbal becoming a little stale now?? I’m all for upward mobility but should we have as much respect for the female or indeed male who is great in sack with a male or female who worked hard got the grades & then the career!!!??? I think not….I cannot respect anybody who has no active hand in their own fate other than laying on their back!!!
There are some women out there who believe that they should be able to write their own cheque after simply giving up the nappy dug out!! Fix up & get into them books