24 Sep 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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With the recent backlash of Amber Rose’s visit to Ghana to mentor young girls and the outrage that follows behind Basketball Wives Draya Michele along with the many women who defend and take up for these women. I found myself pondering a few things.
Is there something wrong with being a h0e if you gets you some millions and prosperity in the end? Or Is it better to be broke with seemingly good moral characteristics? Everyone likes a person who appears to have good morals but according to the bible if you are screwing out of wedlock you don’t have good morals.
Draya may not be book smart but she has parlayed her way into fame and fortune that allowed her to launch a new bikini line. Amber Rose may not be the most intellectually smartest woman to you but she has parlayed her relationship with Kanye into a prosperous modeling career with major companies and a unlimited amount of men who want to date her.
These women stopped screwing block dudes or dudes who say, be independent, I’m not doing anything for you a long time ago.
Some women have screwed a few wealthy men and prospered from it. They either married or received fame and fortune. Some screwed wealthy men and got a slam, bam thank you mam along with a goodbye. Other women have screwed a few broke men that netted them nothing. They loved, got their heart broken and moved on.
Does that really feel good to know that you’ve screwed 20 men and you still live in poverty or would you have preferred to screw 17 men and 3 of them had been of assistance to you so that you never have to live in poverty again?
Isn’t there a difference between how Diddy made his money screwing over artists and how Amber Rose and other women found fame and fortune by being in relationships with popular men? Draya may not have gotten a dime from any of those athletes by her association with them netted her more attention.
Some women have screwed more or less than the same amount of guys.. They just screwed men that didn’t help them progress. Instead they walked away with nothing, probably not even a “orgazm”. Can you really say that you are morally better? Who is really smarter: You or Amber?
I really want to know what’s going on in the minds of young women today. So I ask..
1. Is there a point of screwing a broke man or a man who isn’t willing to financially assist you if needed?
2. If you are a woman having financial troubles shouldn’t you think that you are too broke to be intimately active? Would it be smarter and morally better if you kept your legs closed while you worked hard to get your ish together or only opened them for men who were willing to assist you in your goals and aspirations?
3. Do women really believe that they are morally better than the chick who got paid for her liaisons when they were both morally doing the same things?
4. Lastly do women feel like it’s their responsibility to date broke men because they themselves are broke?
Let me know your thoughts ladies.. I already know the men are going to say that sex is for recreation and for bonding. But they don’t understand how hard it is to bond with a broke man.
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Broke men get screwed by women with the help of government…just like the rich men, so there is no real difference.
In the end you just end up fucked!
Just because you screw a wealthy man that don’t guarantee he’s gonna help you financially. You can end up with just a wet a$$ afterwards just like you would with a broke man. #realtalk
I been on my ass before. I remember those that shitted on me too… Especially the broke chicks.
What happened to loving a man, period. Money should not define a relationship.
Depends on what she trying to get out of it. Some —- or some change. If she want some change she better have more to offer than some bootie! *{imjusayen}
All Great points. As I have a 20 year old daughter I ‘ll answer as if she asked the question. Here goes: The right & the wrong are related to your goal. If you seek fame through a relationship with some one famous then you have to play to win and with your head not heart. Otherwise you lose in so many ways. Money is a tool like a hammer or saw. Many use it to gain leverage and advantage but it only has as much power as you “value it” At the end of the day there is no right or wrong just choices. Whatever choice you make know that you alone must live with it. Keep your eye on the prize and pay not attention to those detractors. A hater’s job is to hate. Your job is to get what you came for……..
Women nor men should never pay attention to what people say about them. They still talk about Jesus and he’s been dead 2000 years now. At the end of the day you got to play to win if you ever want to get on top.
All Great points. As I have a 20 year old daughter I ‘ll answer as if she asked the question. Here goes: The right & the wrong are related to your goal. If you seek fame through a relationship with some one famous then you have to play to win and with your head not heart. Otherwise you lose in so many ways. Money is a tool like a hammer or saw. Many use it to gain leverage and advantage but it only has as much power as you “value it” At the end of the day there is no right or wrong just choices. Whatever choice you make know that you alone must live with it. Keep your eye on the prize and pay not attention to those detractors. A hater’s job is to hate. Your job is to get what you came for……..
Women nor men should never pay attention to what people say about them. They still talk about Jesus and he’s been dead 2000 years now. At the end of the day you got to play to win if you ever want to get on top.
Any woman who defines their progress by a man is slipping. If your goal is a rich man strive for your goal, but your relationship doesn’t define your status. You do.
So Kim, are you saying that you would rather take your chances with a broke man instead because you have more of a chance of getting something out of it?
Broke mindset.
LOL @ Kim and Ally thank you so, so right but that’s real talk Ladies!!!!
And look at that housewife who’s Husband killed himself. I bet her money keeps her warm at night. Didn’t Kelsey Grammer cheat on his wife while she was flitting around on a reality show too. But I guesss it’s ok because she was financially compensated?
Thats a BULL Sh!t statement, my wife of 18 years has been with me from a “bucket to a Benz”. And now she’s rolling a benz. Whatever happen to endurence, working together towards a common goal. It ain’t all about money. This woman gave me her all when I had nothing, now we enjoy the fruits of our labor. Broke now dont mean broke forever…
What if she is wealthy. Women can also help the fuckin broke ass get rich.
what’s the point in screwing ANY man/woman?… If all you care about is whether or not he’s wealthy, you’re gonna have some long cold and lonely nights – I guess you’ll just have to snuggle up with your Louboutins and Gucci bags…
@Kissy – me personally yes ma’am! I got my own with or w/o a wealthy man. But for anyone who wants to pursue that – I’d say GO FOR IT! #crapshoot
Previous post on your page included, the reality is this: people are going to do what they want, regardless. The sad part is, one day the ones who were always in search of the material wealth will wake up and realize that they are still emotionally poor. If your self worth is determined by your clothes, cars, jewels, houses, or bank accounts – you’re living a sad life.
I think the question is fundamentally flawed. If you find yourself asking that question I think it says a lot about the person in question. It’s amazing how many ladies want a wealthy man and don’t have a pot to piss in.
@ Nicole “i like” your statements. @ Ron I agree with yo bro but you are very lucky these new school women are just lookin for dolla signs.
@Alfecia, but these women are not cuddling alone.. Amber Rose is married now and Whiz is worth quite a few millions.. Draya has over 100,000 Twitter followers…
Nichelle, I feel your pain. Been there done that. An adult male with no money is not about anything.. I’m a woman and I be damned if I’m going to walk around broke.. People in general have to have ambition.
Nicole, broke men cheat too. so you’d rather have a broke man cheat on you and walk away with nothing or have Tiger Woods cheat on you and walk about with millions and a bunch of new well established men pursuing you because you have it all together….
Seriously men.. Would you rather have Tiger Woods ex wife as a mate or the broke chick who has loved her husband for 10 years and he cheated on her so now they are divorced and she has to start all over again struggling?
I rather be a broke man with real love and ppl behind me than a fake ass rich lameo with some bitch in love with the dead white men and not me( pardon the bitch if u offended ) one life money& women comes and she goes just as fast as the money do , but a real chick there till death, rich, poor, sick, hell etc
A broke person is a symptom of a larger problem (that goes for ladies too) so really if you bother to dig deeper you will find that broke people are either going through some sort of temporary issue or it’s the result of a lifetime of sub standard performances.
@Kissy – you are always putting a C in my name – why do you do that? – we need to discuss it over margaritas one day… but anyways – Amber Rose is married – that’s fine and dandy but believe me, being married doesn’t always guarantee happiness and not being lonely – look at how many divorces there are. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy for both of them – but I honestly don’t give it very long. Whiz will come and go – hopefully he’s investing his $$. As far as Draya goes – Twitter followers is just that – FOLLOWERS. They aren’t people you can truly count on to hold you down. At least Amber Rose got that in Whiz (for the time being anyways).
Ronald, Do you feel like Tiger Woods ex wife was not a real chick?
…and to answer the initial question. There’s nothing wrong with being a h0e if you are honest about it. It’s the lies most people have issue with. If you are into a man for his money don’t be insulted when he treats you like a h0e… after all that’s the agreement right?
Travis so you view those substandard performances as problematic in a relationship?
I’m Not Judging These Ladies For Getting Their Pay Day… They Didn’t Kill No One To Get It… Let Them Do Them.
Odo.. You really need to find yourself a woman.. Life is not about being alone.. Being alone sucks… Not good..
I’m so sorry. Alfeia.. I do have a habit of doing that.. I don’t know why.. Won’t happen again.
@Travis – yeah, but some folks just like being broke – *See previous post about YOU MIGHT BE A HOODRAT IF*
This is similar to this little gem here..A young girl wants to know what u drive..a grown woman wants to know what drives you…which fits….
Ronald You would rather be a broke man with real love… INTERESTING…
No, I’d rather earn my own, so if a man cheats on me broke or rich, I still have something to rely on. most rich men are smart enough to have you sign a pre nup anyway! What then? and you’re basically saying if he cheats it’s ok because you got paid. Now you gotta brush off the Kevin Federlines who want a chunk of that Tiger Wood cash too. Life is Karma, ijs.
Who views sub standard performances as acceptable? Settling for less than standard even should always be a problem.
Kissy haven’t you struggled before??? Isn’t that what drives you! Tiger’s ex could be a serious head case too. Have to make that decision based on their character not there pocket book.
She left right tiger was wrong tho so that’s a tuff one @kissy she has the right to leave if he can’t keep the thing under control but she might of did it for the money got kids so some woman r raised to find a rich man other woman r taught to get it there self s I like those the ones who push the chips in and not just take out the pot
@Ron – Awesome wife – she’s a keeper
—here’s a good question— How many men would keep their women if they got sick, overweight, or disabled?
One day you’ll post a pic with some Giuseppes on your feet an i’ll know that you’ve snared the rich guy. I understand that went over your head about the car and drive.
^^to me, its the same type of question – it shows how shallow some people can be
@ Kissy, how about being with a wealthy man that is willing to help you.
Not really satisfied with these answers.. Not deep enough.. These answers are just surface answers and the usual a broke man is better cause he won’t cheat on you and rich people are not good people.. People seem to be convinced that dating broke will get you a lot further in life. Therefore they end up broke.
Others want to be wealthy so they date wealthy.. In the end after these responses I really people only attract what they are. People who see themselves as successful attract successful people and do what it takes to become successful.
Others who are ok with being in poverty are attracted to other people in poverty and disdain those who are wealthy, and do not take in activities to make themselves wealthy.
So it’s not so much about the money. It’s really all about your thoughts about yourself and where you see yourself. The relationships will come on both sides. Love will come on both sides and divorce will come on both sides.
Material Girls in this Material world, no matter where u start if its real yall will make each other better
@ Kissy, that’s true. A person have to have a certain mindset. If u have goals in life and want to be successful why would you want to attract a failure.
The majority of people in life are actually in the inbetween. The inbetween simply want to be able to live comfortably and find love and make a family. These inbetween don’t want to be poor and don’t mind not being rich. In general people need to understand that no matter how successful one wants to be that the majority of people still want love.
If you are meeting people who just use you up, that simply means that they are not into you. Love conquers all, it’s nearly uncontrollable, when it hits you there is not much you can do about it. You want to be around that person.
A woman could very well fall in love with a broke man, but if her requirements for dating mean you have to have money then no she won’t give you the time of day to realize she will love you. The same as she may not give you her time if you don’t have two legs… People have standards and requirements, that does not mean that they are not looking for love. Everyone has goals, some just have bigger goals than others..
That’s where your wrong Kissy. Your question was based soley on monetary value, isn’t dating richer better. Some responded no because money should not be a reason to date anybody. Love should, but if your only aspiration is the money, you’re going to be unhappy. I provided examples of how money can’t protect you from inevitable human nature. Dating a man soley for his money is wrong. Period dot. Why not have your own, then it doesn’t matter what he has or doesn’t have because at the end of the day you can take care of yourself. some people have been broke for life, some it’s temporary, but not every broke person will remain broke forever. Look at Snoop Dogg’s wife, under this mindset, she wouldn’t be rich today.
Isn’t the endless pursuit of financial stability via laying on her preverbal becoming a little stale now?? I’m all for upward mobility but should we have as much respect for the female or indeed male who is great in sack with a male or female who worked hard got the grades & then the career!!!??? I think not….I cannot respect anybody who has no active hand in their own fate other than laying on their back!!!
There are some women out there who believe that they should be able to write their own cheque after simply giving up the nappy dug out!! Fix up & get into them books
Jason Diddy didn’t lay on his back to get to where he is at. Instead he stepped on people’s backs to get to where he is at. My real point of this thread if to show people that no matter what they want in life they have to align themselves with people who will help them meet goals.. IF a woman wants to get married she has to date a man that wants to get married. She can not date a guy who wants to be a bachelor.
If a woman wants to live comfortably she has to date a man who also wants to live comfortably. Even if a woman is doing ok for herself, dealing with a broke man will eventually drain her no matter how much she loves him.
The people in your life has to align with your goals. It’s not about money. It’s about goals and personal choices. If your mate is not in alignment with your goals you may have to let go.
@ Kissy, I understand exactly what you are saying. “The people in your life have to align with your goals.”
@Kissy ~ I So Agree With Your Above Statement… 100%
Nicole that is a good answer, but from these answers people are saying they choose to date poor because they believe that is a better moral choice.
Well there you have it to the men who say women only want money these days.. Some women still screw for love and don’t care if you don’t have any money.. So it’s out there.. Or at least that is what they say until……
I knew this bad ass chick back in the days. She wouldn’t give me the time of day. She got with this drug dealer, and I must say he was paid, well she lived it up for years and had 4 kids with him. Well he got killed and the well dried up. She never did anything to better herself and ended up on welfare. She looks horrible now. When I see her and she says hi, I keep on walking. Moral of the story……..you figure it out.
What’s the point in having sex with a “broke” woman!..LOL..
I Have To Really LOVE That Man Who Is Broke. But, He Has To Have A Plan… No Plan, No Time For You.
@Kissy I never inferred Diddy laid on his back to get paid…that was your connection not mine!! My point is I don’t think I’m alone in this view that success should be measured on your skill & intuition! You aligning yourself with the right peope is all well & good as long as you have something to offer the world…..getting rich & famous by association with someone else who is rich & famous in their own right is weak!! There are plenty of good looking people in the world who are just doing them & are not superficially dependant on adulation!!!
@ Prima, u saying a man have to have a plan if he is broke. True only if he’s really young. I’m not sure how old the rest of the women are but am 30+ am not waiting for 30+ and 40+ man to get their self together. when u between 18 to early 20s, that is more acceptable but at our age it shouldn’t be like that. What can a broke man do for me, honestly? When the bills need to be paid and there’s no money. The love will start fading. # Love first with goals in life. Make it a package deal.
If ur a broke chick do u have a choice?
Everybody commits some type evil to get to the top, I could honestly say it is not OK to be a hoe if you’re doing it just to brake a man and be broke again the next day. I say it is okay to be a hoe if you will be at the top because once you get their your hoeish ways will be forgiven.
It should depend on, if he plans on staying broke.
@ Krissy…I wrote this as my status a couple days ago got a lot of women liking it a and a few men but the men who didn’t..lol..omg..here it is:..”I hate a man who is broke and has nothing to offer..NOW seriously tell me what your purpose around me will be CAUSE love sure don’t pay my bills..I could NOT care less how good you look or how much swagga you have…come correct or don’t come at all!!…been there done that!!!”…I have a good job and studying too but I will be damned if i have a broke man in my life EVER again!!
@Lakeisha Owens ~ You NEVER To Old To Have A Plan In Place… Some People Go Back To College At 60 or Older.
@KC Kev Myers ~ BINGO Now You KNOW Exactly How We Feel…LOL
@Invictus Trice ~ Yes, You Have A Choice With NO MONEY It’s Called Educating Yourself Via The Internet… What Can You Not Learn On The Internet Today. Unless, You Can’t Pay The Cable Bill or Telephone Bill I Thought You Might Ask ~ The Library Is FREE.
Everybody is throwing the term “broke” around. Can somebody define broke? Because as I see it, a man or woman can have a job and able to take of themselves but not have extra to do the things you hear that rich people do. Does that lessen a man or womans value?
I agree, what is one’s definition of broke?
Prima, U are so right, U should always have a plan. Am back in school myself,its an on going process to make yourself better in life. My point was I can’t get with someone in their 30s and up , just figuring out they need a plan. @ that age they should be at certain level. #as long as we are living we should always have a plan.
Lol! Can’t open the article from my phone but the title is funny!
I’m not gone be able to do it.
Beverly what kind of phone are you on?
A bitch can fuck a thousand rich men and still walk away broke….its about the bitchs understanding and mentality before she fucks that will determine the win or lose after the fuck…stupid is what stupid does….
Whoa…
A bitch can fuck a thousand rich men and still walk away broke….its about the bitchs understanding and mentality before she fucks that will determine the win or lose after the fuck…stupid is what stupid does….
Whoa…
@richard if a man is just getting by and a hoe is hoeing with him then she is 1 not a hustler 2 an ordinary hoe…the thing about ordinary hoes is that they are discrace because at the end of the day she is a broke hoe, but an extra ordinary hoe can make up for her wrong doing because people can look back and say, look! she went somewhere with her life. For example Trina is an example of an extra ordinary hoe, also eve because they had a vision!
@Kissy ~ Women Say Men Are No Good, etc. But, When Men Call Women Bitches & Whores… They Have NO RESPECT For Woman & It’s Apparent They Have Been Dealing With The Lowest Kinda Women And What Does That Say About Those MEN… A Respectful Lady Does Not Want To HOOK With Them AT ALL.
Yo we live in a free society. I'm for one tired of hearing all these guys complaining about golddiggers. If you don't want a golddigger sign a pre-nup. Protect yourself. Get a women who loves you for you. period plain and simple. Fuck these bitches. These females only get play because people play their game. Eventually if everybody stops playing there game they won't get no play. STOP COMPLYING. Go home and jerk off.