Poor Amber, the beautiful bald headed girl with so many haters. Most recently the beauty recieved a backlash of negative responses from all around the globe. Behind her trip to Ghana in which she visited destitute areas and impoverished youth. She tweeted about the poor conditions she witnessed while visiting along with a few photos.
Well, Amber is sick of you bloggers, sick of Kanye and sick and tired of people in general giving her a hard time just because she dates popular men and stripped to take care of her family at a young age. She is also sick and tired of the gender inequality amongst adults who choose to engage in sexual liasons.
“U do something positive in this industry u get scrutinized I really came to the conclusion that its not even about me its the fact that I’m a woman. Men in the entertainment industry are praised constantly for their ” wrong doings”. if ur a drug dealer and u took care of ur family before ur fame everyone understands. If u get shot in the mist of u hustling ur cool as f*ck. If a mans naked pics hit the internet ppl think its cute or funny then just talk about how big he is. A Man can date 20 models at the same time and he is respected by the world and if a girl does it she’s a disgusting whore and a “Star F*cker” Women get destroyed by the media and our peers constantly but I am writing this to specifically speak about myself.
“Regardless of the fact I dated Kanye for 2 years or the fact I was a stripper at 15 years old or that my most private pics were stolen from me and a new batch hit the internet every week, I am a human being. I’m a daughter, a best friend, a great wife and a all around good person. i never speak negatively about anyone. Have I? NO. U think i don’t want to? I course I do I’m human. But I keep my life positive and I stay strong every time my ex talks about me in his songs or when these blogs tell nothing but lies about me or when ppl say that I shouldn’t be speaking to young girls in Africa. Why wouldn’t I speak to those girls? I AM West African just like them, I grew up poor just like them, most of those girls quit school to take care of their families JUST LIKE I DID. So how the hell do they not relate to my life and I theirs??? Talking to those young girls wasn’t a job for me feeding those kids wasn’t a job for me it wasn’t for publicity and I didn’t get paid to do it. I went there cuz I LOVE to help ppl. I DON’T want a pat on the back for shit that I do from my heart or even a thank u it was my blessing to go out to Ghana it is a second home for me now and it changed my life FOREVER! So don’t criticize me and say why is Kanye’s ex stripper Girlfriend in Africa I am so much more then that smh there is a reason why he loved me so much and theres a reason why Wiz loves me so much now did u ever think maybe I’m just a sweet person?
Every girl reading this has an ex boyfriend and every guy reading this is most likely dating a girl that has been with more then 1 guy. So what have I done to everyone? Its it because u think I am undeserving of this life because of my past? Or is it pure hatred? If I was a man and dated 2 female artist would that be ok? Thats not as bad right? Bullshit. And the one thing that is extremely upsetting is the fact that woman criticize me more then men do. Look at yourselves before u criticize someone u don’t know Look at the mistakes you’ve made in ur life. ppl are so negative it’s ridiculous But I will continue to be positive, Loving and all about women empowerment and to my Rosebuds I know u guys get it and I LOOOOVE u so much for supporting me through all of this nonsense. Thank u -Amb”
It’s not because you are a woman that you receive so much backlash.. It is because you are a beautiful woman who contrary to what you say does seek out to be the center of attention.. Along with that attention yes you are going to receive some negativity. Kanye may speak about you in coded diss songs but you also constantly speak about him.. He may be a azzhole and many other things but at the same time he is responsible for changing your life and garnering you all this new attention and backlash that you receive.. Frankly without Kanye, you may have never seen Africa. Yes, you have all rights to defend yourself, but just on GP, it would be a better look if you didn’t mention him at all.
On the brighter side you have people in Africa, a country that you had previously never been to who blog about you and new people who now know who you are.. Trey Songz was headlining right next to you at the O20 Concert and not many people blogged about his visit.
Despite what anyone may say about you, you are winning and continue to win.. I suggest you put on your “I don’t give a Phuck” hat, be a “great wife” to Wiz and put out a bikini line or something.. That would be a better place to focus your energy on.. Cause these blogs..these blogs are going to keep going.
One thing all women need to learn is that you can NOT do what a man does.
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