12 Aug 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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Keri Hilson has turned her sexuality up recently with her stylish but over the top sexy clothing, her “The Way You Love Me” video and the lustful lyrics and antics while performing her songs on stage. Miss Keri baby is 100% in control of her sexuality. She recently sat down with Fader TV and candidly talked about what it means to be a freak and women owning their own sexuality.
“Being a freak, it’s like that’s what you want to be. I’m not saying [have sex] with each and everybody in that record. I’m talking about one guy on one night and if women are very honest, this is what we want some nights. It’s not to be mistaken with hoe.
To me there’s nothing sexier than confidence so don’t wear or be anybody that you’re not comfortable being or wearing. My album is all about taking control and owning yourself, owning your sexuality, owning your beauty, your confidence, don’t allow others opinions or a man’s opinions validate how you should feel about yourself.”
This is a good interview with Fader: In addition to explaining sexuality she talks behind the scenes of record making, staying in shape and what she misses about Atlanta:
You know I really understand her perspective on Atlanta. My first time going there I was absolutely amazed at how many black owned business I saw. There was a painting of Martin Luther King in the grocery store. Everyone has a hustle in Atlanta. People go hard and reach for a greater life in abundance there.. It’s a city filled with go getters.
She speaks about owning your sexuality in this video. I wrote a article about owning your sexuality and being ok with being sexy. You can find a link to that article here
I don’t think the public sees a difference between being sexy and being a hoe?
25 Comments
I luv Keri Hilson,,,
she's gorgeous but she shot pass freak to hoe. her antics on stage show a lack of self-respect. I prefer the prior ms hilson, this one seems too desperate for attention that she will do anything
Agreed! However we each have our own perception of what it is to be a hoe or sexy! What I think is sexy may be whore like behavior to some! Do what pleases you and not the masses!
Being a freak is what some feel they need 2 be if they really don't have a whole lot of talent.
Alicia Keys, Mary J. Blige, Maria Carey and others didn't achieve their Damn near ironic status from bein' freaky. They actually had some talent 2 work worth. Now THERE'S a strange idea lol !!!
The minute some of these chicks start feelin' like has beens then clothes start comin' off and its all about sex, sex, sex. Rihanna did it. Homegirl Cassie had those "leaked" (not the quotes) nude photos smdh. Just SING dammit !!!
That is good stuff Demetrius!!!
absolutely
Of course there is a difference. Sexy is an aura that one emits… a certain swag. You can look a person and think they are sexy without even knowing whether or not they are sexually active. Hoe is just about f*cking lol
If the girl looks better than me, she's a hoe. (kidding!)
For me a woman looks sexy when what she wears lets ur imagination work . A hoe is letting her titties and ass hanging all out
hoe freak sexy they all can be categorized in the same place,all the freak with cruise control not outrageous.
I agree, being a freak ain't got nothing to do with talent. Keri can't sing, she gotta sell something, right? *shrugs shoulders*
Hoes get money, a slut is free, you can be either and still not be sexy or a freak!
There is a VERY distinct difference.
Yes there is a difference between a whore and being sexy.
Amen
Dang!! Why ya'll going in on Keri like that?
She just hot…on the low
Somtimes ladies do confuse being in a relationship,and straight wanting the man just for his paper.The latter of the two is called good ole fashioned hoeing,prostitution,tricking,etc;gotta know the differnce..
Well i don't know if she a hoe, but i know she ain't got a lick of talent. Her videos are two steps shy of soft core porn, not saying i don't like it though, so i can't judge her LOL
Keri is a talented song writer and writes very well for some great artist, she is sexy and can do what she wants, hoeing and all!
Sexy is a state of mind…not how you look, it's not what you do, it's how you do it ,<)
One thing about being sexy is….EVERYBODY doesn't know you are a freak, young ladies got it twisted, sexy is quiet, sexy is mysterious, sexy is an aura….sexy is NOT a man wanting to stick it to you, and rabbing his crotch does not mean you are sexy, means he wants to SEX you!
sexy is an appearance which defines characteristics which then divides into motives of personality. sexy or hoe
I would say yes there's a difference. A woman can be sexy just naturally by her appearance alone
@Adrienne Phillips & @Gwen Chancellor ~ Well Said Ladies, I Don't Need To Add A Thing…