The Question:
Why is it when a couple is going through financial hardships the first thing the lady wants to do is stop having sex ??? Late at night saying things like “we dont have any time for this”….
If you can watch soaps all day then you can sex your man no matter what the hardship is…. Can you help me w/ this dillemma ???? submitted via email
Kissy’s Answer:
Mama always told me, There is no romance without finance. If love was all we needed to survive the world would be a much better place. But there probably would not be many inventions…
The hardest thing for a sane woman to do is have a sex drive in the midst of financial hardship. Women simply are not turned on when they are broke or lacking the things they want and need.
It is imperative that men stop believing all this false stuff about it’s what’s on the inside that counts and all this other BS that some one put out into the world to fool people. Love does not pay any bills and a woman wants a man that can provide for her.
Intelligent women pick men based on their ability to survive. If you were in the same situation when you met your woman you need to sit her down and tell her that she knew what she was getting into.
I quoted on twitter last week that if your girl doesn’t want to have sex with you, chances are your money is not right.
Women often do not discuss finances with a mate before getting into a relationship for fear of being labeled a gold digger. So she will get into a relationship with you and then stop wanting to be with you after she realizes there are money problems. This is why it is best to discuss finances and expectations before committing.
So what can you do?
- A. You can cheat
- B. You can find a way to supplement your income
- C. You can use your hand until you get your money up.
Truthfully your relationship is at the beginning of coming to an end. When a woman stops having sex with her mate that means she feels disgusted by you. Having sex with you while you are not providing for her wants and needs feels like rape to her…
Most all divorces are due to financial issues. The figure is something like 70%. I would suggest that in the next relationship you sit down together and discuss finances before hand. Put yourself on a budget and start putting money into savings. If you are in a relationship together with a common goal of saving money towards retirement this will help you both focus and not need some of the unecessary things that you can do without. Order your credit report and figure out how to fix it.
Also you may want to consider dating a woman with good credit. This way you can use her credit in case of emergency. Men should not take on spouses that they can not afford. If your finances are not good you have to get a mate with good finances. That will create balance. Lastly it would be in your best interest to become financially educated. If you are not educated in finance and how money works you will always have financial problems.
Kissy Denise | Queen of Answers
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Love DON'T PAY BILLS http://bit.ly/oGVwul
Love DON'T PAY BILLS http://bit.ly/oGVwul
Love DON'T PAY BILLS http://bit.ly/oGVwul
Love DON'T PAY BILLS http://bit.ly/oGVwul
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stop tricking lol
stop tricking lol
So what she was selling her body to him? Lol
So what she was selling her body to him? Lol
Fuxc her,git her girl.
Fuxc her,git her girl.
Something else must be short too….lol. Im sorry…..Lol lol lol.
Something else must be short too….lol. Im sorry…..Lol lol lol.
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Really?!
Really?!
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ha ha ha… fool'd ya!!! nothinz free!
ha ha ha… fool’d ya!!! nothinz free!
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Gold digger..Maybe..that’s horrible
Love and money go together like holy water and piss….
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lol
Shame on the one who act like this……
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it aint trickin if u got it. SIKE! TRICKIN IS TRICKIN LOL!
This is easy. If you won’t give it to me then I bet you somebody else will. When I get back on my feet, you still won’t get nothing from me. We will be like President Obama and the House Republicans no love what so ever
I don’t think you all really read what I write. Those who are saying shame, don’t understand women… Women like money…
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Be careful, dood. She might be a cop.
Honestly if a woman is gonna lose sexual interest in a man every time there's a hardship, SHE has no business in a relationship. No relationship is Peaches & Cream all the time, A couples' bond & commitment to each other should be stronger than just whether or not all the bills are paid. There's too many poor couples that have stayed together to be trying to sell that B.S. The real problem is today's contemporary woman is NOT taught to look for someone who is a good man, & will treat her right as priority. She's taught to look at what kind of car he drives, what kind of job he has. She's taught that the money he makes is more important than the kind of man he is, consequently if this contemporary woman chooses a man on this criteria if the money doesn't last than she's not puttin' out or stickin' around because she was never there for him but what he had, & what she thought he could provide for her. It's shallow, vain, & has nothing to do with love or true commitment. Society & the contemporary woman have backwards.
y give it up 4free… when a monied man will pay 4it!!! fool shoulda known that he got his lady by wining n dining her… once thats gone… shes gone… like i said b4… nothinz 4free… theres ALWAYz a price 2b paid! smart women just know how2 UP~THE~ANTE!!!
Men like money too……
I normally don’t do this but curiosity is killing me. Anyone interested in meeting some millionaires and all around Great People inbox me. (Must be in or near Tampa, FL.) Having a Meet & Greet Saturday. Here’s your shot!
@Leonard.. You just love flossing your baller status on people… I really wish you would just send me a check and stop giving these chicks money… LOL
I wish you were closer so I can show you around…..lol
kissy~ i got an idea… lemme pick u up… n u me n lita will drive our asses 2 FL!!!
leonard can pay ALL OF OUR TRAVEL N EXPENSES!!!
Girl. Leonard will take you and Lita, but he will advise you not to bring Kissy. Leonard doesn’t mess with me.. LOL
We understand all that I’m saying is if this is a relationship there will be hard times so if that is how she acts she will be kicked to the curb quickly.
For the luv of money. Root of all evil….ladies do it for the luv of the c note….
Honestly if a woman is gonna lose sexual interest in a man every time there’s a hardship, SHE has no business in a relationship. No relationship is Peaches & Cream all the time, A couples’ bond & commitment to each other should be stronger than just whether or not all the bills are paid. There’s too many poor couples that have stayed together to be trying to sell that B.S. The real problem is today’s contemporary woman is NOT taught to look for someone who is a good man, & will treat her right as priority. She’s taught to look at what kind of car he drives, what kind of job he has. She’s taught that the money he makes is more important than the kind of man he is, consequently if this contemporary woman chooses a man on this criteria, if the money doesn’t last than she’s not puttin’ out or stickin’ around because she was never there for him in the 1st place, but what he had, & what she thought he could provide for her. It’s shallow, vain, & has nothing to do with love or true commitment. Society & the contemporary woman have it backwards.
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Ardale I believe for the most part your statement is true. BuT I also believe a lot of women are single these days because they want both money and love together and refuse to settle for one without the other. I believe it’s these women who haven’t realized the importance of having both who are jumping into relationships with these poor guys and then bailing when the money runs out. That’s why you need love so that you can work together and if times get hard u can fix it together..
Because hookers don’t work for free. Advice, fix your money issues and go find yourself a better woman to share your life with… Sad advice
I agree completely. And I don’t mean in anyway to imply that financial stability isn’t important, but life seldom goes according to plan, & I would hope the woman I chose for a long term mate wouldn’t distance herself from me during the hard times, but draw closer to me, & encourage me to strive for more, bigger & better. Then when I get it I know, she was there for me when I struggled, so now I can’t help but share all I’ve accomplished & gained & have with her….sorry for writing a novel.
If your funds are short you better be long in another area. That works just as well as money.
@Ardale Knox: She’s taught that he better be paying for the Gucci shoes, Remi weave, and the Prada bag, too!
I’m fine if a guy doesn’t have a lot of money, but it’s not having stability and the act of not trying to establish it that’s punishable with a walk out, to me. A man who is perpetually broke doesn’t have the kind of ambition and skills as a provider that I need out of a partner in a relationship.
I’m cool with er’body but Kissy makes my pockets loose like a slot machine………..lol (Real talk if you can make it here by Saturday I can make the rest happen for you…….Not responsible for strikeouts…..IJS)
"No Romance Without The Finance" Gwen Guthrie (Cuz, Ain't Nothing Going On But The Rent)
“No Romance Without The Finance” Gwen Guthrie (Cuz, Ain’t Nothing Going On But The Rent)
@Richard Douglas ~ I Like Your Thinking "Sorry Ladies" ~ LOL
@Richard Douglas ~ I Like Your Thinking “Sorry Ladies” ~ LOL
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FUNNY HOW MEN AND WOMEN THINK SO DIFFERENTLY..