I am trying to figure out how to date! I am SO tired of attracting men
that just want sex. Grant it, I’m young but I attract older or married
men that just want sex! I am so TIRED of it! Should I tell men straight up I want more, so I won’t waste time?!?
Chances are if you are meeting alot of older men and married men who just want sex from you that means you are pretty sexy and have a desire to get married.. You attract what you are, your desire to be married is what attracts these married men to you. You being overly sexy is what makes these men strictly want to have sex with you.
Most people would tell you that it is your clothes. You could be dressing too sexy. You could so happen to exude a lot of sex and need to cover it up a bit. These men are not taking you seriously because you are not allowing them to.
While it really sucks that you have to dress a certain way to trick a man into believing you are a crisp angelic woman it must be done. The more you cover up the better of a woman you are to a man.. You could of had 10 orgies in college but as long as you cover up and say you are GOD fearing you will be all right with him. (As long as he doesn’t know about your past)
You can tell pretty fast what these men are looking for from you. You are aware of what you want so if they are showing no signs of being able to produce those desired results you should not deal with them.
Yes, you should start telling guys what you are looking for. A lot of guys are honest enough to tell you if they are interested in the same things you are interested in.
Also get busy, as in find something to fill your time. Don’t allow them to make you their last minute date. They need to plan dates with you a few days in advance. Also be careful of the conversations you are having with these men. Let them lead and break the ice. Don’t feel like you always have to make them comfortable around you.
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