No one can deny that once a black athlete gets the millions his flavor of women instantly seems to change. Maybe it was a deep lust that he always had and he just couldn’t afford one before his big league contract. Maybe he has more confidence now that his money is right.
One thing for sure a white woman is often their desired trophy piece. So soft, so sweet. smelling just like Lemon Pledge (Uncle Ruckus Voice) These men run and get one before the ink even dries on the contract.
This isn’t anything new. It didn’t just start within the last decade. This goes way back to Jack Johnson. A child of slaves who had been freed during the Civil War.
Jack Johnson was the first documented Athlete to run out and get himself a white girl. In early July of 1912 Jack Johnson heavy weight champion of the world was charged with taking Lucille Cameron, his 3rd white wife, across state lines for “immoral purposes,” a violation of the Mann white slavery act. With the charge hanging over him, Johnson married Cameron on Dec. 4, 1912. He was later convicted, sentenced to a year and a day in prison and fined $1,000. Johnson was free pending an appeal when he and Cameron decided to flee the country. He spent seven years on the run in Paris before returning to America in 1920 to turn himself into authorities. He was sent to prison in Leavenworth, Kansas, where he boxed five times before being released on July 9, 1921. Later he divorced Cameron and married yet another white woman. There is a really good DVD that tells the story of this fallen champion- Unforgivable Blackness: The Rise and Fall of Jack Johnson
I just want these black men to admit there is nothing wrong with black women.. If 99 black women are in a room these men will go and talk to that 1 white woman in the room. Just admit it. You have Jungle Fever, it’s a craving.. Tongue wagging, thirst guiding you. You desire a white queen.
Black Women are not upset with black men for dating white women. They are upset that these men say that black women are bad and that black women are gold diggers, YET they choose a white woman and take good care of her and her family.
There is no difference in the races of women. If you treat a woman bad she will eventually treat you bad. Both black women and men are guilty of behaving better when they get with another race. Although I can honestly say that the black women behave better because they are treated better by the non black men. They no longer feel like they have to be aggressive and angry. They are treated like ladies therefore they respond accordingly.
A Black Man's Fantasy Girl After He Becomes a Pro Athlete
But black men right away come into the game with a white woman wearing their Act Right cologne.
This post is dedicated to Roy Williams, age 29, #11 of the Dallas Cowboys. That ninja is not acting right for any woman of any race! I sincerely think he must of bumped his head one too many times on the football field to think he could propose through the mail.. Ya’ll be careful when you tackle that man next time.. Take it easy on him. It’s obvious that he doesn’t have it all…
Is it thirst or real love?
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Thirsty in love with lust.
Most are nervous bcuz of the ghettoness that comes with some black women. A white woman will be better behaved in some situation I guess… Give me a million I will never leave my Black Queen for a white woman. Nothing against white women but I just love women of color….
It’s all about the economics. It’s pre set up so that when they get together, her job is to keep looking pretty, keep her mouth shut, & she will continue to live the lavish lifestyle that “she’s accustomed to” He can go and cheat around all he wants to, as long as it’s not brought into the house. Anywhere else is fine, but the perimeter of the house? NAH!!
Its a known fact that black men want white chocolate!
Kissy, I thought you said a few days ago that you date white men because they treat you nice. Maybe these women feel the same way you do about Black men.
Love is love regardless of color, and if they have race issue or self hatred then why would you want them anyway…either way get over it!
I say “Love”! Almost any black man can have a white woman out of lust, rich or poor. Even have a nice looking one at that. If they are gonna marry one I say it must be love cause they feel they have found that “Woman” that makes them happy & treats them well.
Thirsty for a trophy. These Black athletes wanna be like the White man so bad. So he goes after his women. He thinks he has “arrived” or made it by having a White woman. But the White man still laughing at his ignorant ass. Because that’s another Black man that’s mentally enslaved and turned his back on his own race.
Race shouldnt be a factor in you are attracted to & date. High profile African-American athletes get a bad rap because they date or marry outside their race. So what! Im from NYC and we live in a multi-cultural enviroment. I love NYC for that.
The statistics on this are NOT TRUE, the MAJORITY of black men actually date women of their on race, but the media of course is quick to show the public the opposite to fulfill their own agenda of showing us divided. Clever…
@Craig I’m a Black man and never wanted a White girl. White women are boring and overrated to me. Sounds like you allow stereotypes and perception shape your views.
Wow that article streams someone has issues with black men, white women and interracial dating. Most black men to the extent married at all are overwhelming married to black women… Including wealthy black men… It’s just that black golldiggers hate to lose out on even one rich black guy to a white girl. I wonder if Hispanic women get a pass?
Depends on how you look at it.
I’ve dated every race under the sun with the exception of Asian and a few European countries.
What I’ve found in my own experiences is:
A) White women tend to gravitate more openly to Black men now than they did previously, irregardless of stature. Part of the attraction is the confidence we display and the fact we’re competitive, both in and out of the bedroom. The average White guy is clueless when it comes to women and relationships, mainly because he spent/spends a large amount of time watching porn and other unrealistic avenues on how to relate to women. Black men watch porn as well too but we tend to be more concentrated on the woman herself, rather than the fantasy world, even though that sounds weird in this context.
B) Black women are by far better dating material than White women for Black men simply because they understand. The problem for most Black men of means is that most Black women of means are dating outside of their race too, so they both cancel each other out. Halle Berry, Recheia Candidate (probably spelled her name wrong), and a host of famous/beautiful women have dated men of another color.
C) The reason for the attraction between White women and Black men also stems from social situations. Most powerful Black men, unfortunately, probably subscribe to the notion that it’d be easier to break into certain circles if the woman they’re dating tends to have a hue more like the circles they’re trying to get into it.
If it were up to me though, I’d rather get my Barack Obama on. Find me a beautiful, intelligent, down to earth Black woman that can stand by my side through thick and thin, understand what I’m going through, and hold me down both in and out of the bedroom!!
You are always banging on about interacial relationships ! What does it matter ? Its no big deal here in the uk but I get the impression that you have a problem with it !
Thank you Mr Walker.
What some athletes and some black men fail to realize is: A woman is a woman REGARDLESS of her ethnicity!
I dated a pro athlete and he told me when “trailer park” whites make it into the pros..they bring their “trailer park” women with them! Why can’t that be said for the brothers?? One word, Identity Crisis!!..he forgets who he is and where he comes from!! So sad!
It’s not about black & white it’s about having access to things period that you wouldn’t normally have access to with their new found wealth & fame. You’d be crazy not to at least to try a steak now that you have access to it when you’ve been eating hamburger all of your life. Apply that analogy to the black rich ball players who date white women. What would be the point of being rich if you didn’t have access to the things you wanted when you were poor. Does not necessarily mean they want to be with white women it’s just that now they have the oppurtunity to test the waters,unfortunately alot of them like the water once they get in it.
To Me Love And Lust Complete each-other, God Created us with an instinct,
Kissy, w ALL these post about interracial dating lately. What exactly is you Take on it. I think by now You know mine LOL
As I far as I am concerned they can have all the “trophies” they want. They really don’t know what they are getting. 40% of white guys would rather a have a different color than white (TRANSPARENT YUK) and don’t have the balls to do it, another 40% want a “trophy” too because they are dumb jocks and 20% know better and chose a different and better color out of the whole spectrum available and are happy for it. Remember my generation grew up with National Geographic in the bath room (mmmm). Let them have all the “trophies” that leaves a bigger box of mixed chocolates and other flavors for me. Remmer what Forest Gump Said.
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Besides…there are plenty of white men that like dark chocolate. Just saying!
Why does everyone want to know what I prefer?? I prefer men who spoil me… Color doesn’t matter…
people want to know why you write so often negatively about interracial dating…specifically black man to white woman
I prefer a woman with some color to thier skin but that is just one characteristic. Athletes are Rich I don’t know individual choices but if the Energy between two people work thats cool at least those two are smiling despite the way the light refects or absorbs onto thier skin.
people always want what they can’t have. They must feel like you said, they can afford them now. Now, Jack Johnson, prime example. White women were forbidden back in the g and it’s only been legal since the 70s right? Not sure but, that’s what it seems to be, and they probably be bout that divorce or infidelity.
As a white female who dates black males I think you are showing the exact reason why black men like me. I can’t speak for the other white women in the world. I don’t care if a man has dated a white yellow orange green or purple woman before me. As long as he treats me right when I’m with him. I always get bad looks from black girls when I’m with my black boyfriend. Whatever, that’s your negative energy, not mine. Black men aren’t thirsty for white women either, they’re attracted to us. There’s a difference. Don’t get mad cuz you never got a ring in the mail.
Really? This column is just stupid! Majority of black men date black women. Athletics date and marry black women! Why focus on the handful that date white/other? Like really another female regardless of race will never be a threat to me. God made me one of a kind! I’m fighting men off me! Pow!
You can't assume that just because a black athlete, actor, singer, or working Joe is with a woman who is not black, that it's a "trophy" situation. You have to look deeper and get the facts. Often the woman they are with is someone they were with before they were famous. In other cases, it's simply stars dating stars. Yes, there are some who "worship " the white world, but that's not most. Just as every black woman is different so is every woman of any race or color; as is every man– black or other. These blank statements do nothing to move anyone forward and simply aren't true. Regardless of what the trend is, your individual milage may vary.
This is a very touchy subject, because I see all day everyday…Black Men with White Women. I feel if you really love a person well then that's fine, but I don't think that's the case most of the time.
Kissy u brought up some great points in this…i have never been mad at anyone for their preferences..if a black man prefer white women so be it. it wouldnt upset me unless he goin around talkin bout he date white women cuz black women r (insert derogetory remark here) i mean all women r not gonna give u the same experience no matter what the race…if u really are attracted to black women then keep looking there r some good ones…if you really prefer white women just date them and let that be that on that
Nice topic LOL
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I'm a life-size Brett doll-a boyishly handsome,58-year-old black Canadian lad who agrees-THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BLACK LADIES!!!!(Beyonce,Claudia Jordan,Melanie Brown,Brandy,etc.) Otherwise,ABOUT FOUR-FIFTHS ARE FAT,FUGLY,B***HY,FRIGID OR,IN far too many cases,ALL FOUR!!!!(And as one of my favourite Country singers,Collin Raye,sang,"That's my story,and I'm sticking to it!!!!")
By the way,that blonde chick shown in the picture IS NOT MY FANTASY!!!!(I can't resist BUXOM BLONDES-34C-42D-
gals!!!-AND VICE VERSA!!!!)
This is a subject That I could debate all Day. But I won't. all I will say is these black men deserve whatever these swaggas do to Them!! Just gets me ill literally!
Why is there a pic of Kobe? His wife is Latin
Get mad all u want to maybe that white woman likes him for him and not just what he has.
Lol yall act like black women with these rich negros treat the good. Look at chris bosh for instance. You black women dont act right, and already act like a man owes you somethin. I dont blame these dudes.
I love Black Women so much that I married one. Oh yeah, I'm Black too!
I don't give a frack they could have them all. It's their live do with it what they want.
I don't think this is a "Pro Athlete" issue…. Black men date/marry white women everyday… "famous" or not. While I get the point of the article… this is going to continue, and it's nothing new. I date black men.. always have, ALWAYS WILL… and I'm not sorry for that… I don't care who doesn't like it, I am attracted to what I am attracted to…
Lol not tonight….smh…maybe tomorrow I don't have the strength.#teamninjaplease
Thats what happens when you get money
@ Russell… You alright with me bro!
*yawn*
Haaha..
Black men do! The average negro. Black women gold diggers thats why its a "rich black men" thing. Instead ofjust askin why black men do it.
Yup.. I never did like that.. U have lots lots of $$$ but U rather sport a nonblack female.. quite disturbing! 9-5-11
Y'all (Black Women) BETTA be #THANKFUL them Heffas Taking them Weak Niggas Off y'all hands and taking that blow to the face and their life (Cheating, Trophy treatment, etc) … Unless of course, You tryin to be like everybody else and make your marriage a business decision!! smh Cuz NOT many folk with that type of attention or People PERIOD are about "WHAT THE SAY!"
- Becareful what you wish for! – Ijs
i believe not all blacks…
not only the black men the black women also do that once they are opportuned,dont be a men hater kissy.
Why can't we just date along?
You have a totally different selection of women when you're in that pay scale . Whereas when you in your home town you only had the sistas there . You have sports groupies that make it a point to at games , stay in their attention . Even with education you will find a different selection of people to meet . Go to a game and you'll see that black women are out numbered by a large margin .
lol. how come whites don't get rich and marry blacks?
I meant to paraphrase Rodney K's line by asking, " Why can't we all date along?"
Black women are gold diggers? Please itsm the black women who are raising single family homes and doing it while going to school work and raising ya'll asses pleazeeeeee…..
@Abner not all black women are gold diggers.
@Greg you have a valid point. Lol! Be very careful what you wish for.
Someone once told me the reason why men go for white women instead of staying within their own race. From white women are raise to be a wive where as black women are raise to go out there to survive and work for what you want. So while it might seen like a white woman will do anything for a blackman actually she was train for the position to be wife. If you go into the latin or chinese culture those chicks are raised the same way to take care of family and howto be a proper wife. Now the more I read stories of these type of relationships it does have some merit to it. Like Pretty Brown Bone Lilly has mention thats what we as black females are pretty much doing. Now if you go into a high society black community yes those females are being train to be the proper wife but the average black female have to learn the ropes of how to be wife on her own.
GOLD DIGGERS???? NOT!!! Let me open your eyes, first they can date who ever they want. A lot of the white women don't have anything and the brotha is buying her a home, diamonds, cars, etc. All the sistas get is hair and nails, out to eat, lil stuff here and there. But you call them the gold diggers. Digging what gold? Now a days, sistas doing better than most brothas.
This statement is old but it holds truth. Sista will help a brotha in college and when he make it, he will most likely date a white woman. I can remember in college, when some of the football and basketball players needed homework done. Guess who was typing it…sistas, they was getting food brought to them, and we supported all there games. The same ones came back with white wives. I honestly can care less but as people we need to wake up.
I see why the white man had you black men as slaves you so dumb so dumb I think your slow. If I was white I wouldn't want a black man he has no power, when he makes it rich he goes to a white women and gives her and her family all his money dummy then the white community still rich because a black man has no power when he does he gives it to the white community lol. I see why they say white power your so dumb thinking that's cute you look silly.
I hate when they say black women are gold diggers, but look who all end up with most black athletes, white women. I mean really who are the gold diggers? I hate to see all these athletes go out with all these white women, when you have sisters out there who are just as worthy. It disgust me, that they think we are gold diggers when we are after stability just like white women are, I mean really. But when they black behinds are broke and dont have a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of, they run back to what they knew before the money, sisters, and sisters are the ones who take them back openly. This is when the white woman kicks them out. It is sad that these men get some funds and treat sisters like what the white man still treat us as.
Its sad they will not let these funds they earn circulate in the Black Community. Keep the white richer, that is whay they are assisting with, cause when they get a divorce, she will take them for half and then who do they think is the golddigger.
It’s quite simple, really. White women are the most beautiful in the world. They ain’t all nasty and belligerent, loud mouthed bitches either. It’s as simple as that. And their hair is the best.