People will only feel sorry for a victim for so long. Never be a person who people look at with pity. Take responsibility for making bad decisions in your past. Then forgive yourself and get over it. Only predators like weak people. Winners like winners and steel sharpens steel. There is nothing cool about being a victim of your own circumstances. Your life is not hurricane Katrina. Take control of it.
To cry about your past and want people to talk pity on you means that you have not accepted fault and took responsibility for your choices. If you do not accept responsibility and understand why things happen to you, that means you are unable to change. If you are unable to change your choices and decisions that means you will again be victimized.
There are a lot of people who really bad things have happened to. INcluding myself. But we choose to let those things make us stronger.
I could tell people a whole bunch of things to make them feel sorry for me, but I don’t. I don’t want people looking at me as a victim. We all make mistakes. Mistakes drown weak people and strong people come out stronger in the end.
If you want to be looked at as a victim and pity don’t expect people to take pity on you. Pity if for uncontrollable circumstances… Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder were blind… Look what they did.. They did not wallow in pity.
Everyone has problems. You are not the only person with a problem.
Life is nothing more than solving one problem and moving on to the next problem.. When you get a few good moments of bliss learn to appreciate it.