Posted by Miss Kissy on 27 Jun 2011 /
29 Comments
What is the reasoning behind wanting a woman to pay half?
Is it because he is seeking a roommate to split the bills with and lighten up his load?
Because he is tired of paying, and he has paid for everything in the past with other women and wants a change of pace – He now wants a woman to spoil him?
Is it because he has not found his purpose in life and doesn’t feel like a family would help define, nature and drive his purpose?
Is it because life is not fair and everything should be split 50/50?
What is the real reason? Men let us know how you feel.
29 Comments
Yes men give us some feedback.
Yes men give us some feedback.
Yes men give us some feedback.
Yes men give us some feedback.
Yes men give us some feedback.
Yes men give us some feedback.
Doesnt bother me.
It doesnt matter 2me as long as we have a good tme!
I wouldn’t quite put a percentage on things, but I do feel that a woman can contribute on some occasions…
i dont mind paying half I undestand that times are tough right now so we can go dutch or use 2for1s Im cool either way
I’m all for it as I’m all for giving women the equality they themselves demand.
Only if she insists. Most times men will pay. That’s part of the process of proving yourself to her.
i’m pretty traditional and have always paid for everything. going dutch does seem like to would be more fair though, especially with the whole womens lib movement and everything.
Fine with it! She should…if she was single and eating alone, wouldn’t she have to pay her way….lol! I definitely pay, but if I have to pay all the time, that’s not the one. If she expects me to pay, she ain’t the one! So glad I found the ONE!
I think on the first date the man should pay
Aint nothing wrong with that.
I always reach for my purse even w/o being asked just think its the right thing to do but my man always pay for everything….he insists lol
yeh im feeling the love ladies and im single lol
I WOULD WANT HIM 2 PAY – ESP IF HE ASKED – NOW IF A WOMAN CHOOSES 2 ASK – WHICH I NEVER WILL – THEN MAYBE BUT I CAN ASSURE U IF HE ASKS – HES PAYING – R HES WASHING DISHES BY HISSELF
If a man invites somewhere, I expect him to pay.
For Dinner I Expect Him To Always Pay… I Love Paying For The Movies Only, If We Are Traveling Together We Should Go Dutch…
were talking about Pay as far as paycheck/ 50 percent of her belongings-neither may not have a quarter
I don’t believe women should pay for first dates however if I’ve been dating the person for a while I will pay the full bill occasionally. I agree with the person that said its 80/20 man pays 80% of the time the woman 20%
I agree w/ Nicole: definitely not on the first (couple) of date(s), but after while I would think they can at least offer to treat you. Not that you have to accept… but the thought does count.
Hey 50/5o aint bad every 3rd or 4th time out I mean ladies want that rock show u can help out everyonce in a while
Men should pay all the time. Always has been and should be that way. Chivalry isn’t deadd
@Angel, Good luck!
I feel good about it
This might not be popular to say but I think when 2 people share the expense it shows that they really are about each others company and gettin to know one another which is what is supposed to be the most important thing. Once you get a better idea about some one and trust is established then other things will fall into place. This takes away all of the who might be taking advantage of who and who might be expecting something in return stuff, just get to know each other better and enjoy the company.