But first some rules of common sense:
If you lay down with dirt, you will come up dirty. – You can’t go to the hip hop club on $2 Tuesdays with the guys and girls with gymshoes on and expect to meet a good man, that’s going to treat you like a Louboutin chick. Even if you go to this club with your Louboutin’s on and meet a guy. Chances are he is going to treat you just like any other chick that was in that club. You can’t change people. Most people won’t treat you any better then they treat themselves. This is why you shouldn’t be in this club looking. If you go have a good time and leave it at that. No need to give out or exchange numbers.
2. You can not climb the ladder of success dressed in a uniform of failure. – If you are dressed like a hoe you will attract men who like and prefer hoes. So don’t get the confused face when they treat you the way you dress. Yes, this rule is very unfair. But it is what it is. Don’t spend time trying to fight against something you can’t change. A successful dating uniform is covered up. Leave something to the imagination.
3. So you did all that and now you have the guy. One week later you sleep with him. You more then likely just messed up. See men equate women who sleep with them too fast to not being”wifey” material. Men like women that are purer than them. So now he may stick around for a while, but the chase is pretty much over. He may enjoy having sex with you but he has his eyes out for that valuable woman who won’t have sex with him too soon.. True, she may be the super ho who had orgies and slept with every guy in college, but he doesn’t know this.. All he knows is what she presents to him. Pages: 1 2 3 4







24 Jun 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy











203 Comments
then u attract the brole ones that see the shoes ur wearin n want ur money lol
GIrl. That is a whole nother story. LOL , That happens a lot! MARIE
you have to learn to just say no
More shortsighted ramblings about what you have rather than improving what you ARE.
Listen up chicks. Stop wearing PAYLESS AND BAKERS SHOES if u want a good man http://bit.ly/kJuAf9
Change the way u wear ur shoes then u get better results
Article would have been better without the references to those overpriced shoes (gold digger alert) and the part about a woman who is free declining to go out at the last minute which is only appropriate if that is how he typically asks you out (that is without pre made plans) which may indicate either he is super busy or doesn’t value you and your a backup chick. Still it’s game playing.
sometimes Kissy women attract men perfectly fine and those shoes would definitely do the trick problem is how much is dude going to be willing to put up with some game is expected but ghetto mean you go
I do agree don’t wait around for any guy (or girl) to call, make plans and do something if you want to…he will learn to ask sooner if you’re booked when he asks late. If he doesn’t adjust he isnt interested.
Kissy I Hear You ~ But, Where Is The Country That Has The Most Men So I Can Move There To Get Me ONE…
LMAO!!! Women still attract bad men regardless of shoes. Like an old quote, “clothes doesn’t make the person.”
Once again I must the the odd one because as long as a lady looks presentable I could care less what brands she has on. I think fashion for ladies is not like men…. although you can dress for less as a woman the high end is really out of control.
If every time you go out with a woman she has on a new pair of Jimmy Choo’s you are going to start wondering who’s gonna pay for dinner. She’s obviously got the loot.
I agree with Daryll here. Games are for kids. If you’re available say yes.
Flip is true too I ask you out for Friday or Saturday on Monday or Tuesday and you are either tentative or don’t get back with a definite yes until Thursday, unless I just see you as possible sex ( which might result from playing that game even if not original feeling)…. I’m am busy even if it means going out with backup chick or staying in.
I Don’t Wear Payless & God Knows I’m Not Buying NO Louboutin Shoes To Attract A Man… Let Him Buy The Louboutin Shoes.
I’ve said this be4 and i think its worth saying again. A woman who wants a nice, decent man needs 2 BECOME what it is that she wants 2 attract. If she wants a nice man with a good job, financially stable, physically fit and so o …n then she should have a good number of these requirements going on 4 HERSELF.
The fact is … there are hood rat chicks from coast 2 coast who have expensive shoes and clothing in their closet … but don’t have much more going on 4 themselves. Unfortunately black people are known 4 wanting and going out of their way 2 purchase fancy things that they know damn well they can’t afford and 4 what? 2 impress shallow people not even worth impressing smdh.
btw my prior post means this is how she normally acts…not one time thing.
Ladies if you want to attract better men, stop being a PAYLESS chick http://bit.ly/kJuAf9
Thanks for understanding me Demetrius! LOL
I’m just gone get what I can afford. As long as I look presentable and decent it shouldn’t be an issue smh. Not finna buy myself some Louboutin and my children are rockin garanimals shoes from walmart. FAIL
This girl is a idiot
Wow really tho i didnt kno dat ur shoes made a difference or where u got them from all dat matters is a persons heart i happen 2 luv payless dey have the nicest things @ reasonable price
If a man judge me on some overly priced shoes I dont need him I carry myself in diva mode at all times not because of shoes but because of my character…..the men i meet let me know this daily!
Listening to a woman this superficial and air headed is only gonna have any real woman wondering why she dun have no man
No doubt Travis haha !!!
And lol @ Kenneth !!!
U don’t have to be a payless chick to run into the losers u can be a jimmy choo chick n still be fucked up in the game bcause u thought that the man u were wit gonna treat u like queen plz
The shoe part threw me off, but the end of the article IMO is the best advice. My goal is to become a woman who is valuable for the right one. I will Never settle for less than what I deserve.
Hey Payless has come up over the years. They have major designers now. Any whoo if a man can tell the diff between Payless and Louboutin’s I dont want him. Just knw that theyre cute shoes & they match what Im wearing and that I made the effort to look good for u.
I like nice things, I work hard to have nice things, apperance does matter I wear it all very exspensive, and some not so.expensive ” imma tell u like my mama,told me ” you have to look good, to attract mr good!” { thank god that’s jus wat I did} someone who can help me keep my life game up!;-)
Wow!! Tripe, nonsense and foolishness. If this article were true Halle Berry and rest of messed up Hollywood would not be single. You’re basically writing off poor men which is insulting!! Most men wouldn’t know what the heck a pair of Louboutins look like and if he did he wouldn’t CARE!! Anyway, I bet YOU didn’t know about Louboutins before SATC – please! They’re played out in the fashion stakes – if you want smoking hot shoes try Camilla Skovgaard or Nicholas Kirkwood – but I digress, whilst a lot of what you say makes sense, the premise that men of a certain financial standing treat their women well is foolish. Broke isn’t necessarily bad – shame on you, you usually talk sense.
You gotta be kidding me!!!! I have met the worst women with nice shoes aka money. Some of the sweetest women and kind hearted with good souls women didn’t have expensive shoes.
kissy u have stirred people up with this one. Wonder if u hardly wear shoes then where does that put u. Some people wear no shoes at all keep it coming kissy is still luv your work.
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women can team up with Local 77 union and get a job with Asplundt. The women can wear those to climb trees before they top cut them down. Kat Von D says word
easier said than done
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Kissy can you please send me a pair of those shoes in a 10
?
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I wish I knew how!? Being single can suck at times!
better yourself
make yourself available..not being funny either.
Better than the mate you got or a better mate than yourself? Vernon Howard said long ago that what women attract is a reflection of who they are and what they are projecting from the inside out. Better yourself or own who you really are and stop trying to trade up. What is in it for the recipients? Lose/Win is not the solution.
its not the shoes…its the ATTITUDE!!!
I don’t want a “man” that’s so easily persuaded by a shoe.
I just finished reading this article,I luv it,its very nyc
Thank you TULULOPE
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Do a through background check, like the ones done when getting a security clearance. That usually discover many facts.
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If you see somthing you like you better speak up cause the next woman aint waiting around,gotta be able to let a man know your interested..
I like your take on this kissy…makes a lot of sense and I loved the disclaimer lol u don't have any Louboutins, Kissy Denise really? Lol
I like your take on this kissy…makes a lot of sense and I loved the disclaimer lol u don’t have any Louboutins, Kissy Denise really? Lol
Sike!!
Whatever he does, it should certainly be enough to want you to stick around. Expect kindness, humor, respect, appreciation for who you are as a person, and intelligence. Not sure if it needs to translate into monetary value: I think I can make a woman feel comfortable and happy enough to hang around without spending a lot of money. Besides, if you make it all about cash, what kind of women will you expect to attract?
Only the son’s of single mothers disagree with this mentality.
I dont expect a man 2 pay on our date i always bring my own $$ cause i dont want him 2 think i may owe him something in return plus it shows independence
absolutely amazing. if we are equal in all standards of this thing call life, don’t pull out a trump card and make the scale unbalanced when you see fit. there must be balance in everything.
That treatment only goes for classic women. If you’re not getting it, look in the mirror.
Steve Harvey is crazy~~tell him to give his first wife her dues who was there with his broke ass from the jump~~he is just like Melba Moore and Anita Bakers Husb~mans~~he took advantage of her and now you ladies~~are listening~2 him~~!! damn he is good~
Im interested into hearing everyone’s thoughts from a post women’s liberation generation. to expect anything from another individual will do nothing but force you to pull your foot out of your mouth later on. To the young lady who made a correlation to men being raised by a single mother, that has to be the most ridiculous theory I have heard this year. Men who were raised by single mother’s usually have a soft spot for women, and will anything to please them.
Dirk…..holla at em’ bruh!!!!
ur damn skippy!..y not?…idk wat has come over some men..but nowadays dey expect u 2 pay!…especially if u make more money den dem..
if thats true men have a right to want to get to second or third base~~~at least thats what you woman raise your boys to think~~is why the daughters are getting knocked up~~
it also amazes me how people can stereotype another group of people as if they have done research and analysis on this particular group to come up with their conclusion. we get enough of that from white folk.
Y’all the ones who fought for equality, equal pay, to be respected as individuals. So you should be surprise that some guys expect you to do the same. Y’all courting each other so who pays is up for grabs.
Louie its funny because equality is often unwavering when it can be used to fit one’s own idealogies. We are equal until the bill come’s to the table, then the batting of the eyelashes start. And oh yea, I forgot, if you only tip 15% you are cheap, you are also judged by the amount of your tip also not only that you paid for the meal. Last time I checked, reimbursing someone for special ‘time’ fit another illegal category.
@jeremy…i understand u completely..but i was with a guy for 3 1/2 yrs & he was raised by his mother & he was stingy as hell!..but im thinkin mayb becuz he neva saw wat it was like for a man to treat his mother…he raised up being tight with his money…becuz his mother had 2 learn how 2 budget her money 2 take care of him..idk..the jury is still out on dat one.
If the man ask for the date, then the man should pay…that has always been the trent. Anything else outside the date is a different story.
@ jeremy. thats bullshit. the sons of single mothers more often than not feel as if his mother didnt have it why should you.
Some women are willing to come out of their pocket and pay for a man to spend time with them.
What makes Steve Harvey an athourity? I dont disagree with his opinion in this case but as far as I’m concerned he is just a brutha with an opinion & a micraphone. #justsayin
if a woman pays for a man to spend time with hes shes an idiot. and if he asks you on a date and you pay. You are an IDOIT. Please excuse the grammatical errors. Im on my phone
Alexandra i cant apologize for the men in your life that have treated you like you werent worth a meal. I only offer you the advice of picking and choosing men better. Also:
How much is a man’s time worth?
@alexandra that is not true at all u jus really nd to atract diff men im raised by a single mom that strugkled it jus make understand a strong women frn a skoft one nd respect a women that gets her pwn nd has independace instead of a dependancy on a man so yall women tat thnk men raised by a single mom will do u harm look at yoself u was probly raised by mom nd ferl that since she had no men to do fo her u feel yo man should do it all not the deal it 50 50 all tje way thru
Now that’s a damn lie….bahhhhhaaaawwaaaaa!! Your ass will be hungry, thirsty, and need cabfare back to ur crib…
Regardless of politics, if you ask the person out, be prepared to pay, irrespective of gender. Anything else is disrespectful and pretentious. Most of Steve Harvey’s, “advice,” tends to boil down to chauvinistic pandering, so I take it with a grain of salt.
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Not always true I get that and I do not own a pair , I also have a educated man who is not a jackass. LoL
It takes confidence with some common sense and intelligence.
It all depends on what your looking for,somtimes we all get caught in the physical and thats ok, but if your lookin long term you must go deeper and show your worth everypenny to that man..
This sounds more like how to get top dollar for ur puss*.. If moms out teachin this then theres no wonder y so many women whore themselves out to men w/money…only to miss out on the men that really want them… $$ is the root of all evil… quit fuckn everything they meet and be patient and itll b ok
It is Bryan. No good man wants to be with a woman and watch her struggle. Of course a broke man wants a nice woman…
@askK-24th: life has stages,if your prepared correctly, u’ll have NO problems
Kissy.. You Should be telling them how they need to be more succesful.and diligent in their own self improvement. Sayin choose a.man w/morals and a pure heart that truly loves and adores you.. Finances can come and go
[...] of coffee standards in the past does not mean that all women will be ok with those low standards. The Louboutin chick versus the Payless Shoe woman. This works for the man but this may not work for the woman he is interested in.. Not too many [...]
all do respect sis, this is b.s. shoes only walk u through the door and out. character and dignity is what matters. besides in this economy should we really promote high priced shoes?
No Mega. But I do promote READING.. It’s a good look..
Sense when do men care what brand shoe a woman is sporting! Haha…while they may give you money to shop they really don’t know Louis from Gucci…
Haha@Kissy
Yall got to understand, Kissy is high maintenance and she coming from her perspective, Regular cats like me who aint rich don’t care if a women shoes cost a lot, just as long as they nice looking and clean.
lol
“You are the Payless/Baker shoe wearing chick”…lmao… Hell yeah!
Damn!!!…lol.You on 1.#imdone
My post would be ” I am the made at home leather moccasin wearin kinda dude cuz modern shoes ruin your arches and spine angle” Native Americans had it right LOL!!!
THANK YOU so much for this article!! I have been telling SOOO many of my friend this same stuff for year so now when I send it to them, they can see it’s not just me speaking wisdom!!
Awesome Eryn. Glad you enjoyed it and actually took the time to read it.. I appreciate that.. People do not read these days and wonder why they are lacking…
ur content is just not responsible and is just distracting folks from the reality. honestly its just not for me good luck finding ur prince. but most MEN i know would stamp you too nuerotic and delusional. i really hope ur different from your post. im not perfect at all but really…
You know what you can’t blame a person if they haven’t been exposed to different things ya know? It’s like I get upset at some of my associates because they wealthy and they waste a lot.But hey they been rich they whole life so I can’t expect for them to feel like I feel because they didn’t work they way up they always have had.So we gone feel different and understand different.Example: I told a friend about a nice date I had and she looked at me like it was a crime but if she hadn’t been on a nice date she don’t get it.#imcrazyiknow
Mega no sane person who also has reading comprehension skills would find something wrong with this article. If you find something wrong with the article then you need to educate yourself and learn reading comprehension.. That’s it that’s all.. Most of my blogs are controversial but this one is not. It is rooted 100% in fact.
I know what is real and what isn’t real. I dont’ think shoes will attract any type of man, he may have money may not have money. Your purse and your shoes may attract a man that may THINK you have money, just like SOME men buy cars to attract women. Sometimes we all have to be reminded that there are good women out there as well a men. Many would love to meet and fall in love with a person with money, I will take a man that has what I have and that is his own.
I hear you. You attract what you put out.
And u know you own a pair of them shoes.#icantspellthemlol
thats not my arguement. reading comprehension or critical thinking. one is for sheep for the slaughter the other for the lions. after glancing at your comment that i figured it was misleading. it had nothing to do with the article. i realize that and you do to. you just don’t want folks to see the strings. i do its all good. they prob wont even know what im talking about. do you?
A button has been pushed. LOL
I don’t judge a woman by her shoes…I judge a woman by how she takes care of them, regardless of where she gets them from…Not everyone can wear fancy shoes, and not everyone wants to…
I get the general gist of what you’re saying, but by the same token, it also points toward the shallow end of the pool. Even worse, if you are looking for Mr. Right, you may be your own worst enemy because you’re sabotaging your own efforts.
College Tuition = Cute Flats… Not into materialistic things anyway.
What ever.. A bunch of people who don’t know the definition of analogy.. Sometimes I think my articles are just too intelligent for some people even though I make an attempt to make it as simple as possible. Nevertheless some people will still ride in circles on a small yellow bus.
OMG. Im happy to be alive right now I am Lmbofff
Made ya look,made ya read,made ya comment.I like it.
Lol
LOL…can say I enjoyed this, most is somewhat true. Lmbo. Every rule has its exceptions though.
I love this article. You are so right about the value of your time and rewarding respectful approaches. My sister says men will test you and you gently/by action set the expectation level.
But
all this treatment/expectations/etc all starts somewhere when we are little girls. A lot of this is not circumstance but starts with our first male relationship —-father and daughter.
Niether do I , I don’t have a pari either. I refuse to spend my salary on any, but I do date like the Louboutin chic. Its all in the presentation and the package Like those Louboutin shoes, you thing quality and status, but after you buy them, they hurt like hell, but you keep them and stay true because it was all in the package.
Women package yourself right.
Niether do I , I don’t have a pari either. I refuse to spend my salary on any, but I do date like the Louboutin chic. Its all in the presentation and the package Like those Louboutin shoes, you thing quality and status, but after you buy them, they hurt like hell, but you keep them and stay true because it was all in the package.
Women package yourself right.
MAN!!! I know someone has some ideas and topics for me to write about………
Great blog
I love this article!
Maybe a blog about confidence, gaining self esteem
Julia Acevedo I already wrote a few of those. You can use the categories search to see those articles.
Thx. I will. I enjoy reading your articles
I love Louboutin I just ordered a very nice pair… The ones I really loved was too pricy
Nice Dee Moore. One of these days I’ll be able to afford a pair.
Ahhh Kissy I know rocking at least 7 diff CL’s..
Why do I keep attracting the wrong girls?
Article is awesome I just forward this to my son who is 20 yrs…& my daughter who is 21yrs…
Thankd Dee Moore
We All Had Our Share Of 1 or 2 Bad Affairs & Hopefully Lessons Were Learned…
We All Had Our Share Of 1 or 2 Bad Affairs & Hopefully Lessons Were Learned…
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