21 Jun 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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The Question
Musobobi Ivan from Jinja, Uganda (AFRICA) Asks:
“Kissy why are women so rude to their spouse when they are sexualy starved, instead of being open & ask 4 it.”
Kissy’s Answer:
That is one of the worst feelings. To be a attractive woman, to have a mate and to be sexually starved. It is very frustrating. A woman expects a man to supply her needs. It should not have to be a guessing game, nor should a woman have to tap you on the shoulders and tell you that she wants it. If it hasn’t happened in over a week and she is has an attitude with you then you know what the problem is. A man should get his mates schedule down to see how often her body is going to crave you.
A lot of times when a woman has an attitude she simply needs intimacy. Then she will calm down and go back to being the nice, sweet pleasant lady you met. This is how a woman is tamed and becomes submissive to you. By you fulfilling her needs.
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Women are raised to believe that only bad girls are in control of their sexuality so instead of taking control and simply saying “Baby I could use some *attention*” , we become angry and resentful. The general feeling of a woman who has been raised this way (consciously or subconsciously) is that sex is something a man controls…if it’s in his power, then HE should be the one to ensure that his woman is sexually satisfied…
Don’t get upset…teach me and train me. I may just be your star pupil…with lots of practice(lol)
It cools them off
Vince, the last thing a woman wants to do is teach a man how to sex her. Women expect you to already be prepped with this knowledge.
A woman shouldn’t be afraid to ask her man for sex. There are subtle ways you can let a man know what you want.
This is some bullshit, because women can get sex whenever she wants. It men that get fucking frustrated because the woman hold out on them. If my wife ever says she is sexually frustrated, I will slap her in the face with my nutt sack!
ahahahhhhhhhhahhhhahahaa1!!
I always say birds do it. Bees do it! We should do it!
I have only dealt with this once and I was angry with my lover because he just wasn’t doing what he know satisfied me. Who wants to CONSTANTLY remind their lover to touch them this way or to lick this spot, etc.??? It made me feel that he was only interacting with me sexually for his own satisfaction and that my needs were secondary. How did I “fix” that? I simply TOLD HIM – “Baby, you are good at what you do but it’s not working for me right now. Crazy about you but if you continue this way, I WILL need a toy – real or battery operated”. He got it together…
AsK-Kissy.com only problem with that is if there’s something that you like done we aren’t supposed to automatically know what it is!! If you don’t say nothin, we keep it movin
Women men love it wen a woman ask for it in a respectable sexy.like watching football with your mate and both are into it!
I KNOW how to have sex, but every woman is not the same and have different fetishes and ways they want to be pleased. I just want the woman to voice her likes and dislikes in that area.there’s nothing wrong with constuctive criticism in that area. I’m not the BEST lover, but with your help and communication, I can be the BEST for YOU…ijs
Women craved for sex more than men….The least we cud do is to to be dominant, aggressive and make their legz shakin….yall tell me if their pussy aint gon beg for mercy
Some Men, Now All Get Offended If You Try To Tell Them How To Please Their Mate… So, You Have To Do This Gently Ladies Oppose To Bruising Their Egos In The Process…
dere is nine ways dat yu cn make your husbend or your bf to understand wat yu need@although life in africa and america are nt de same i dont wat i wll say about america bt here in africa dey do it over hundred times a week so we hve no problem with dat lolllz
Whoa…. @Anthony Smith! That’s kinda deep…. #outlikeascout
Believe it or not a lot of women are in sexually unsatisfying relationships. Some men simply do not give their woman sex often… Either he is too busy or he has other women he is sleeping with so he doesn’t take care of home…..
^^^Under those conditions I can understand. But I can go even when I am tired. Sore. Sick. Shot in the leg. It really doesn’t matter. I guess to each his own though.
Really Kissy? What about the man who STAYS ready but she is too stressed with her job and complains that he’s a sex freak?
VINCE, That man should of found a woman that can keep up.. I have no sympathy for men who pick the wrong women.
Im a playboi, I always come through for the ladies.. #thesexmachine
Kissy, now you KNOW in the beginning, some women have sex like its the last d*** in the world. That’s to hook him. After they get him, they ration it out then dare you to cheat to get it somewhere else…wth?
A woman wants to be pleased to the fullest
Degree just like us men do. I’m talking about
That good feeling where the legs are trembling in the air & your feet & toes are
Feeling weak afterwards, you fall asleep light
Headed and wake up hours later & he’s doing
You passionately & most explicitly with his
Tung. That’s what a woman want, for it to be
Done well, in the perfect spot & done right. No
Holding back!
Kissy, do a poll to married/committed men and ask if the sex increased or decreased since the vows or commitment.
Vince, we all know that it would read DECREASE
You can’t figure a woman out, the best way to handle it is just d**k her down and be happy she still wants you to. Curve her fustration with deep strokes, trust me she will futrate you a whole lot more.
“fustrate”
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I like that…men should be aware wouldnt that be nice….sometime they are not so i would take some action….initiate thee act and tell him how much i want him..
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Kissy i feel the same and thats why i dnt hve sex often it literally takes me umpteen hours jst 4a premature ejaculation
I would like to know that answer. Cuz I’m mad now.
Good question.
Maybe you are not satisfying her and she feels it would be a waste of her time because when it comes to sex you are finished before you can start…just my opinion and unfortunately a previous experience..
Check you performance skills Musobobi…
Because After You Tell Them What You Like/Dislike ~ They Continue To Do What They Like…Now, What’s Up With That.
Some women get frustrated because a man
Gets his but she doesn’t get hers. If you reversed the scenario, most men would be
Pissed if they couldn’t get off. LOL! That’s
Why it’s so important for we as men to be
Prepared to please thoroughly at all times.
Whether it’s making love or some deep strokin, I’m all about pleasing the lady &
Getting her off first. That’s what turns me on!
I’m talking about coming with the Thunder,
Putting the “Boom, Bam, Scoozy to her
Whenever she wants it & how she wants it.
Amen to Renaldo.
i never had that problem. every woman ive been with always told me what she wanted, which most of the time was not sex, unfortunately. as far as being rude, i blame feminism for that one. maybe it’s differnet in Uganda, but here in the US, women are taught to act like men and men are taught to act like women. it’s really sad and pathetic.
Because he’s tired of monotony ! Add flavours .
U kind of sort of answered your own question bruv’ lol. If a woman is sexually starved … then that means her needs are not being met. And if she is supposedly in a committed, faithful, monogamous relationship with a dude and she is sexually starved then dude is doing and handling everything else but is clearly neglecting his women’s needs.
And if, after a while, he continues 2 neglect her needs … then count on other dudes bein’ available 2 uuummm … “FIX HER” haha: )!!!
@ Zachary … your comment makes no sense. If it literally takes u UMPTEEN HOURS to achieve “Premature Ejaculation” … then its not premature … it is lol?
^^^maybe he meant unteen seconds?
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I believe couples take for granted that if someone is your mate than being amate by title is enough to stir the flames. If you want to change how you feel sexually you have to participate in the kindling of the relationship that causes that emotional connection to be stimulated
i asked for mines sometimes i dont get so i take it from hime he seems to like it.
Damn@Leslie…..that what I’m looking for…..pow!
Women are different from men my brother. A woman is biologically programmed to attract her soul mate and even after she may have found him….that DNA running through her veins and running her thoughts still wants to be pursued and wooed. Remember whatever it took to get them is what it takes to keep them. Man up and do some research on your significant other. Sex is forever intermingled with feelings. It is not a straight business transaction. Pick up on those hints that she is dropping and she won’t be sexually starved. By the way what is wrong with you asking from it anyway? I am almost sure that she didn’t just straight up offer it to you in the face place…Now, did she?