Interested in getting out of the friend zone? If you are currently friends with that beautiful girl that you’ve been spending every day listening to her blabber about her daily struggles with the men that she dates, that steamy romance that you have been waiting on is more then likely, not going to happen. You are in the friend zone. Maybe you placed yourself in the friend zone or maybe she placed you in the friend zone. Whatever the case, the friend zone is almost impossible to escape.
Being in the friend zone means that there is a certain level of sexual attraction/chemistry missing. Sex is a great part of human needs. Yes you can live without sex but it is also a very natural urge of the body. Your body craves it. Naturally, when being in the presence of someone you are attracted to that feeling of lust will surface. Women are no different than men, other then not giving into the urge right away due to societal, fear based inhibitions.
While you may believe that you are doing what’s best and being patient, quite frankly some other man is going to come along and get those goodies. He may have gotten them already. Meanwhile you wait while occasionally being thrown a scooby snack.
Maybe you know this and you feel like you are exercising patience and she will choose you after running through all these men and seeing that they are no good for her. She won’t. She will just go gather a new batch and you will still be there as a friend. An emotional shoulder to lean on. She will give you a nice pat on the back, a hug or maybe even a kiss on the cheek to say thanks for listening.
Women already have “friends”, i.e. people they are not sexually attracted to. Do you really think she is going out dating so that she can meet more men she can be “friends” with? Women do talk to everyone and have needless menial conversations with strangers. But what she is really seeking, is a connection.
A woman wants to meet someone that lights her fire down below, someone who makes her heart rate speed up. Someone who makes her smile upon sight or thought of him. One must not get platonic and romance confused. When a man is interested he should let the woman know his intent and that he is interested in getting to know her romantically. At least if you apeak of your intent upfront and behave as pursuing alpha male, it might save you from being looked at like a cute lil puppy that occasionally gets petted.
Being platonic in general allows an opportunity to get to know ones flaws, quite frankly during this time period of showing your flaws and saying things the other doesn’t agree with you chance talking yourself out of a potential relationship. People are much more accepting of your flaws when their body is being flooded with lust by dopamine.
If you have been in the friend zone for 6 months, waiting on that girl to dump her boyfriend and get with you, waiting on her to stop dating all those other men who have the sense to be a alpha male and not get placed in the friend zone, waiting on something that’s never going to come. STOP, move on. The next girl you meet you let her know that you are romantically interested in her from the beginning.
When a male is still in the friend zone after three months time, she is just not interested. At the minimum by three months time some heavy petting or making out should have occured. If not it is time to move, on, leave her alone. Don’t allow yourself to be her “girlfriend” in a man’s body. What’s the difference between her having you as a friend and having a gay male as a friend? Nothing, except he probably has more fashion sense then you do.