Keeping things hot and spicy in the bedroom is a very easy thing to do.
Number one thing you should do is minimize masturbating and toys when your mate is not around. You need to keep all of that sexual energy stored up. This will help you put more energy into the actual sexual act with your mate. Just like food. You will be hungry for him.
Candles not only smell good but they set the mood for lighting. It makes everything romantic.
Body Butter – Buy lots of scented body bother and rub it all over yourself before the act. You want him to breathe it all in along with your natural scent.
If you are in a long term committed relationship one of the best things you can occassionally do for your partner is allow him to have sex with someone else. That someone else should be you. This is achieved by wearing sexy outfits, putting on wigs, doing your make-up heavier, tall heels and doing some role playing. If you are usually the type of lady who pretty much just lays there or waits for him to initiate, change roles and be the aggressor. Initiate and then hop on top and ride. Be very verbal. Talk dirty to him. Call him daddy. Tell him he has the best d*ck in the world. If you have a hard time loosening up and letting your inner slut out have a shot before hand or sip on a glass of wine.
The stripper and her pole are completely not necessary.. Instead bring the stripper to him. All you need is a stripper chair.. (a movable chair) Hand him a drink and tell him you will be right back. Give him some time to get the drink in his system. Come back with your outfit on and let him watch you dance. (This should be a surprise of course) Dance for him around the chair for a little while, play with him teasingly slowly removing his clothes. Leave his boxers on. Keep teasing him, softly touching him here and there. Walk around the chair slowly massaging him. Then instruct him to lay on the bed. Take your shoes off and stand on the bed above him dancing, being sexy, touching him and back to touching yourself. Ending in a grinding lap dance. Then on to the rest of the foreplay.. If the chair is sturdy you can do the entire act on the chair. (Wigs are good for this chair dance act)
Most women are turned off by adult flicks but watching it can actually teach you a few things. Like when you watch adult flicks you see the women give head with enthusiasm. They love it. It’s not done with caution.. It’s wet and sloppy with lots of noise, vibrations and hand action. If you don’t like the act purchase flavored lubes or simply wrap a fruit roll up around it. But get into it.. Act like you like it. No one wants to feel like they are forcing you to do something or fell like you are doing them a favor.
MEN: It’s really nice that you enjoy making slow passionate love to your woman. That sex so good it makes you cry sex is beautiful. But yes she does need to be roughed up sometimes.. Pick her up in the air. Sex her in your strong arms with her back against the wall. Women who say they came 20 times during sex is not a myth.. This is achieved by entering the hole in the bottom of the vagina (the cervix). The Master stroke/9 Shallow 1 Deep technique.. (I will write about this in a later article) If you master this technique you will be way far ahead of other men. This is a secret technique that most men are not familiar with. The average man hits the cervix and causes pain. Very few men know how to use that spot and make a woman feel pleasure. Do some research on it. There is also Tantra techniques that a lot of couples have been engaging in.
When I say rough sex I do not mean painful sex. Women should not have to take sitz baths after sex. If she does that means she was not wet enough (Your fault). When you meet women you should never show them all of your moves right away. Release them slowly. That way you can constantly surprise her. When you sex a woman properly she will feel conquered afterwards. A lot of men are not sexually conquering their mate.. This is part of the reason she is not submissive to you.
Always have lots and lots of eye contact. Of course music should be involved. Music makes for good memories.. Either make a playlist or use Pandora. Sex also happens outside of the bedroom, be spontaneous. You only live once.