14 Jun 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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Keeping things hot and spicy in the bedroom is a very easy thing to do.
Number one thing you should do is minimize masturbating and toys when your mate is not around. You need to keep all of that sexual energy stored up. This will help you put more energy into the actual sexual act with your mate. Just like food. You will be hungry for him.
Candles not only smell good but they set the mood for lighting. It makes everything romantic.
Body Butter – Buy lots of scented body bother and rub it all over yourself before the act. You want him to breathe it all in along with your natural scent.
If you are in a long term committed relationship one of the best things you can occassionally do for your partner is allow him to have sex with someone else. That someone else should be you. This is achieved by wearing sexy outfits, putting on wigs, doing your make-up heavier, tall heels and doing some role playing. If you are usually the type of lady who pretty much just lays there or waits for him to initiate, change roles and be the aggressor. Initiate and then hop on top and ride. Be very verbal. Talk dirty to him. Call him daddy. Tell him he has the best d*ck in the world. If you have a hard time loosening up and letting your inner slut out have a shot before hand or sip on a glass of wine.
The stripper and her pole are completely not necessary.. Instead bring the stripper to him. All you need is a stripper chair.. (a movable chair) Hand him a drink and tell him you will be right back. Give him some time to get the drink in his system. Come back with your outfit on and let him watch you dance. (This should be a surprise of course) Dance for him around the chair for a little while, play with him teasingly slowly removing his clothes. Leave his boxers on. Keep teasing him, softly touching him here and there. Walk around the chair slowly massaging him. Then instruct him to lay on the bed. Take your shoes off and stand on the bed above him dancing, being sexy, touching him and back to touching yourself. Ending in a grinding lap dance. Then on to the rest of the foreplay.. If the chair is sturdy you can do the entire act on the chair. (Wigs are good for this chair dance act)
Most women are turned off by adult flicks but watching it can actually teach you a few things. Like when you watch adult flicks you see the women give head with enthusiasm. They love it. It’s not done with caution.. It’s wet and sloppy with lots of noise, vibrations and hand action. If you don’t like the act purchase flavored lubes or simply wrap a fruit roll up around it. But get into it.. Act like you like it. No one wants to feel like they are forcing you to do something or fell like you are doing them a favor.
MEN: It’s really nice that you enjoy making slow passionate love to your woman. That sex so good it makes you cry sex is beautiful. But yes she does need to be roughed up sometimes.. Pick her up in the air. Sex her in your strong arms with her back against the wall. Women who say they came 20 times during sex is not a myth.. This is achieved by entering the hole in the bottom of the vagina (the cervix). The Master stroke/9 Shallow 1 Deep technique.. (I will write about this in a later article) If you master this technique you will be way far ahead of other men. This is a secret technique that most men are not familiar with. The average man hits the cervix and causes pain. Very few men know how to use that spot and make a woman feel pleasure. Do some research on it. There is also Tantra techniques that a lot of couples have been engaging in.
When I say rough sex I do not mean painful sex. Women should not have to take sitz baths after sex. If she does that means she was not wet enough (Your fault). When you meet women you should never show them all of your moves right away. Release them slowly. That way you can constantly surprise her. When you sex a woman properly she will feel conquered afterwards. A lot of men are not sexually conquering their mate.. This is part of the reason she is not submissive to you.
Always have lots and lots of eye contact. Of course music should be involved. Music makes for good memories.. Either make a playlist or use Pandora. Sex also happens outside of the bedroom, be spontaneous. You only live once.
74 Comments
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its getting hot in here
Gotta give props for the writer
I believe you have graduated with honors your precious
Thanks..
Your mother to see how far the apple is from the tree.lol
NONSENSE!!!!!!!
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Omgoodness gracious! If you allow another in your BED you are NOT in a committed relationship! Call me selfish!!!
Allow HIM to invite another in your bed??? If you allow this….then can you invite another man in your bed and your mate would be fine with this?????
IF your man wanted you to pop your eye out so he can stick that…would you do it???? GTFOOH!
Wig(check) body butter(check) sturdy chair (check) stripper moves(check) all of the above check.
Someone didn’t read the article GWEN…..
lol)))))))))))))) OOPS
OK OK LISTEN THERE IS ALWAYS DIFFERENT THING BUT NOTHING WILL BEET THE TUNG!AND WOMEN YOU WILL AGREE WITH ME OK!LOLLLLL
I think u didnt finish reading the article @Gwen, she said “that someone else should be you” after. Meaning, dress to impress ur man in an appealing and special way not casually
An imaginary friend would be the safest!
@Eric Placide, thanks for looking out….Kissy already got at me…but thanks for looking out @Eric Placide ,<)
Am very excited about this hole in the cervix is there a special position it can be easily reached.
U knw wht Kissy!u always make my day dear!lmao!
Will you be my friend?
I enjoyed this article and will be using it!!!!!
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It will be hard but ill lend my services to all you beautiful black queens.I am day dude doug.lol
When u said “(your fault)” after not being wet enough, i was done!!! lol…”sitz baths”. ha ha. Nice article!
I’MA STAY FAR AWAY FROM THIS ONE!
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I got the magic stick!
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OH FUCK YEH…. SLUT HERE
This article speaks the truth.
[...] Be the man that gives her what she needs. Show her it’s ok to display her soft feminine side. Make love to her body and mind. Show her that you will protect her from harm. These traits will make her respect you and slowly [...]
Amen KD.
Yes Kissy! My husband and I know all too well, LOL! That’s why we have children!
Kissy I gotta spice things up!
Are you kidding me!
Good read but wine is good yes for the first round but somehow it reduces what you should have achieved without it
You gotta stay creative and honest or it won’t work. But go for it
would be nice just to have a woman lover/partner in this cold hearted Beatch city
Yep, those Pic’s up’d my status frm Stalker to Bestie. I hope to be wifey soon…..jus agree’n wit Ms Kissy LOL….!
It sounds good but as soon as the nasty break-up come there goes them photos so now your a slut or stunt to be famous. How many times have we seen that mess. Damn if you damn if you don’t! The complex world we live in!
That was damn if you DO damn if you DON’T!
I.spice up my bedroom by laying females down on a bed of hot peppers and garden fresh herbs!and with the right wine i’ll just eat her up!!!!woo woo!!! Im hungry:)
Unless your last name is wiener lol
Sex is a good things
And wen u get married u kip it on?¿wow dats nu!
im so able…..
What!! So your giving Hall Passes!? I love you then! Lol! ( ;
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Thank u! Oh and the car title!
LOL!! I ♥ the ending part…Unless it comes with an Aston Martin…GIRL #TELLTHETRUTH
ha ha ha
sexual comments are usually utilized to ‘break the ice’ of conversations, just to make things lively…but it doesn’t have to go that way..unfortunately, that’s where most discussions point toward to…are we that fickle as a society to point on such an easy topic?
Where shud I send ur car Ms. Kissy!? And what color wud u like? U can keep the car all I want is ur friendship, I am celibate so sex can wait. =-)
Lmao…probably shoula read the rest! My man knows better to not even go there…i told him one day he may get lucky but til then he know if i find out he slept with another chick… I am done being faithful too..stick around if u want to.
#POW….and thats the Gospel Truth.
DAMN KISSY!!!!! U GOIN HARD 2NITE HUH?…I CAN DIG IT!
I love you for saying that!!!!!!!
And no..if my woman has sex with another guy the last thing its gonna be is with my permission!
Kissy….hahahahaha, you are a hott mess girl!!
Now thats wat im talkin aston martin, where he at, i dont wanna ride let me drive… Lol
Men who make sexual comments, are not gentlemen. That’s no way to come at a lady. Show respect, to get respect
Funny goldie
@AsK-Kissy.com- I have really got to get your “whip” knowledge up……IJS
Kissy meant a Maybach not a Austin-Martin.
WTF?………….Did that Brotha say “celibate?” If you don’t drink the milk it still goes bad………….IJS……..(WOW!!) “How he do ‘dat?”
beautiful saying i truly believe all of that made me horny this morning but i think the person im with has low testerones. He is older than me but he is the most boring sexual partner i ever had good person but sorry when it comes to pleasing me. I tell him what i want talk dirty. I think he is just lazy. In my mind im ready to cheat but i keep giving chances
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Sex oh yeah baby,ok first off some women are turned off when asked what turns them on,but I’ve found that if you know what buttons to push ahead of time that makes the journey much more pleasurable,tell me what you like cause I’m dam skippy gonna tell you what I like,gimmmmie good lovvvvvvin,knock boots h-town baby…
LMAO Kissy you funny you shouldn’t say that cause i do have an aston kusher car its just plastic though LMAO..