I don’t know what’s going on with Chris Bosh and his ex Allison Mathis and why she won’t let him see their child. Maybe she is doing it to get back at him for ruining her chances at reality show stardom on the Season 3 of the VH1 reality show Basketball Wives (Bosh sued Shaunie O”Neal, to prevent Allison’s appearance on the show) or maybe she has other reasons for being another vindictive black woman.. You know she has to be labeled “vindictive” cause there is no way possible that she could have a legitimate reason for this other than her being stereotyped as a bitter black woman. Black women aren’t allowed to be upset about anything cause we will be labled vindictive.. (Rolling my eyes)
Whatever the reason is, I’m not in agreement in this particular situation. It has me thinking about other women who don’t allow their kids to see their father. Especially black women. There are so many fathers who want nothing to do with their child. A few kids would love to have a father in their life but their father is dead or behind prison bars. I take a serious issue with women who won’t allow their child to see their father, just because you and him are not getting along.
Some even pay their child support on time and in full and the mother still gives the father a hard time seeing his kids. Then these same women run around here talking about they are a single parent. GTFOH! You are not a single parent. What you are is a selfish b*tch. If you loved that child so much you would think about the childs well being and feelings.. This little black child who is already fighting against social standards, racism and other problems now gets to go to school along with all the other white kids, who most likely come from a two parent household.. They have show and tell stories of what they did with their dad over the weekend. Meanwhile your child is sitting there saying they haven’t saw their dad in I don’t know how long because their selfish mom who claims to love the child so much, refuses to let the father spend time with his kid.
A man should never have to fight to see their kid as long as they haven’t done anything to harm the kid. Your souring relationship has nothing to do with the kid. You should not trap your child in between all of that drama.. Your kid is the one who suffers in the end.. It’s not the kids fault that their daddy no longer wants to be with you. Why would you want your child walking around this harsh earth thinking that their other parent doesn’t really care about them?
Then you have the other greedy b*tches who go back and forth to court filing paperwork for more child support. Abusing the child support system.. Don’t let the father not be able to make it back to that state to go to the court date.. Automatically the parent will get whatever ridiculous amount of money that they asked for.
This letter makes me so sad
If you Ask Kissy, Allison Mathis you have no right to not let that little girl go see her dad play in the finals.. She deserves that joy right along with him.. She deserves to see her father during that proud moment. Stop being so selfish and making all the none bitter black women look bad. Take advice from Shaunie O’Neal.. She is not bitter. She went on about her business and made a whole new empire. Meanwhile she does not keep the kids away from their dad, even though he did cheat on her and publicy embarrass her, several times…. But that has nothing to do with the kids. What you are doing is so not cool. The man hasn’t seen his daughter in over a month. You are wrong on so many levels. You had better stop now before you end up like Dwayne Wade’s (his TEAMMATE’S) baby mama…..
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Mind games!..she wants the doe!!
using the child to get back at the other parent is just plain stupid and irresponsible!!!
maybe bosh should have sold out and been like every other black pro athlete and married a white woman. lolz!
I can tell you what he is doing. He is preparing to take her to court for custody. The first the you need is paperwork showing that she is being unfair. There will be more letters if this keeps up. I believe it is inexcusable on her part.
I can tell you what he is doing. He is preparing to take her to court for custody. The first the you need is paperwork showing that she is being unfair. There will be more letters if this keeps up. I believe it is inexcusable on her part.
I also hate when women use children to get back at men, thats so selfish! Chris should hire an attorney for full custody since she is being such a b*tch! So any men don’t even want to see their kids and this man is asking and she’s avoiding him, smh
Iv got same problem its not nice not being able to see your kid!!! Me i can handle it and in sure he can. What women need to do is think about the child first rather than themselves true?
I think she needs to stop hanging around Dwight’s baby mama. Drama begets more drama
Its a cryn shame, just bc u have money, u can stop another person from having freedom of speech, she can’t go on the show, can’t say their names, where do these laws come from, men u shouldn’t slept with them and made a child, but keeping the child away is not the answer but I understand
Make a child
@sandor chris bosh DID marry a white woman a couple of months ago!
No matter the circumstances never use your children for your dirty work.
white women do the same stupid stuff, don’t make this a race issue please
A letter to all the women who won’t let their childs father see their kid http://tiny.ly/Vmgl
A letter to all the women who won’t let their childs father see their kid http://tiny.ly/Vmgl
Allison Mathis won’t let Chris Bosh see their kid http://tiny.ly/Vmgl
Thats so selfish, Regardless of what goes on with him and her the child should never be effected..I was not raised by my father because of ignorant reasons (from my point of view) and I said I would never do that to my children…that has long term effects…he need to get custody that would really punch her in the gut…idoit!! smh
RT @BeautyOverBooty: A letter to all the women who won’t let their childs father see their kid http://tiny.ly/Vmgl
I know my statement may not be popular but I’m not making it for popularity, it takes two to parent , rather together or not , if the shoe was on the other foot an the show was called basketball husbands and the men carried on the way the women do on there, I wouldn’t want my mate who I raise I child with on the show earthier, its not a good look when grown women who have children carry on like high schoolers, that’s thinking about the child! If that’s the reason he didn’t want her on the show, women who keep children away from men who want to see their children are only hurting themselves in the end, its time for adults to act like adults an not children.
Vindictication of a black woman?
I REALLY CAN NOT CALL THIS JUST YET, WHO’S TO SAY HOW MUCH CHRIS WERE INVOLVED IN HIS CHILD LIFE, THOUGH HE IS A STAR, SO I WILL HOLD JUDGMENT 2 I CAN SEE & HEAR THE WHOLE PICTURE °°°°°°°°
im going throught the same thing it only F Up’s the kids women need to know that
By law if he has visitation in the divorce decree she is in contempt
They Never got married. They were only engaged.
If he is paying support which I’m sure she is making sure of… He still has a good chance before the judge.
if he isn’t he can sue to get visitation rights to have his kids or he can go for full custody…
as for basketball wives, it should be call basketball former-hookups or something, as too few of them were ever actually married to their reason for d-list fame
He gone do the same thing D Wade had to do to his wife…
If you don`t want the child to be around his dad, then don`t have a kid by that man, am with my son right now as i speak , “keep your legs closed”….REAL-TALK……by….MAGIC-JUAN REED!!!!
This Is Really Sad…Especially When it Comes To Children.
A letter to all the women who won’t let their childs father see their kid http://t.co/lSnBN1K
A Letter to all the women who won’t let their kids father see the their kid http://t.co/4wyxy7i
Why Allison Mathisnwon’t let Chris Bosh see their kid. http://t.co/g1CqRWE
A letter to all the women who won’t let their childs father see their kid http://t.co/g1CqRWE