03 Jun 2011
Posted by Miss Kissy 
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Haters
I do not understand women. I do not understand their catty and bitchy ways.
I do not understand the envy and anger that stirs in them when it comes to other women. I do not understand why women get so bent out of shape to the point where they are turning their nose up at the young, hot girl with the half top on. I do not understand why when women see a beautiful woman who commands attention, they usually mumble to themselves or say to their girlfriend that “She ain’t all that”. They have radar vision and quickly zoom in and find something wrong with the girl.
One girl once told me that she hates going to the gym because all the girls are showing off their hot bodies and prancing around. I told her I love that. It motivates me to go harder on the treadmill so that I can have a hot body too. I do not look down on the big booty model. Heck, I wish my booty was a bit bigger. I am just like a guy. I see one and think wow, nice ass.
People come up to me all the time and ask to take pictures with me. I do not think much of it. I just smile and take it. Most times if I am with another girl she is rather annoyed by it. I intentionally watch the behaviors of women. Women tend to say many negative things to me about the way I look. They say sideways comments about mens reactions to me. They are often frustrated in trying to figure out why I get the reactions from people that I do.
They think to themselves, what is so special about her? Often I sit back quiet and do not say anything. Not because I am afraid of their reaction, but because I think it would be better for me to allow their envy to eat at them. If I am with a guy and a beautiful woman is around, I will probably see her before he does, I will probably be staring at her and saying wow, she is beautiful. I think its so cool, how women are all so uniquely made but some turn out to be so extremely beautiful. And I am not even gay or bisexual. I consider myself a beauty connoisseur. I love all things beautiful.
I look up to and admire women who pave their own lane. I like the opinionated women who aren’t afraid to speak and be themselves. I love the woman who lives free and takes the world by storm and say Hi, This is me. Why can’t women be more like me and embrace other women? Why are women so catty?
There is nothing wrong with telling others they are beautiful and wonderful. That doesn’t make you any less beautiful or wonderful.
52 Comments
Ha. This is funny.
I am not!Insecurity and Immaturity is slot to blame.
Tammy u right. I ave a batch of such women.
I don’t understand either its a girl who does that to me at work she’s really loud and she uses that for attention I’m really sweet and quiet which my boss always states he loves about me and her face looks like she wanna kill me.. I don’t understand I never been that way I give women compliments and props when do no jealousy lives in me…
I have no idea….I compliment beautiful women often and some of them look at me like I’m crazy! Beauty recognize Beauty
insecure!!
Im not, too. And I just h8 it when my fellow women do it to me. Jealousy is such an ugly thing. Women shouldn’t compete w each other.
I can’t answer that because I am truely happy for other people success and happiness, I think it makes this world a better place with happy successful women so can’t relate.
You know women can be fake and sneaky…worried too much about the wrong things or making some kinda assumption about another female based on how she look. I delt wit this crap all my life. Jealous caty immature shallow females. You would think i should hate females but i dont. I dont have a promblem giving compliments either but am finding some dizzy chicks think your gay if your too nice. I just accept it as part of some womens nature and just cont. To do me..Bunk the haters
Yes! I would like 2 know and it makes me sick! Where is the Dang sisterhood love!
There is no sisterhood be we as women do not embrace it at all. we dnt show our sisterhood any love and idk y and its a shame. we have fought equal justice but in 2011 were hatin on each other. come on where is the love 4real
Well said Terissa…
Has me scratching my head too, cuz’n… If women could over whatever issue(s) they have w/each other, we’d be sooo much farther ahead in life, goals, endeavors, etc… Well I can’t worry about that, cuz NO ONE is gonna steal MY SHINE!!! {in my Jay-Z voice} “I’M FOCUSED MAN!!!”
They need to stop…it is soooo ugjy. I’m so sick of it. That monster, ENVY….smh
Women are catty for the same reason they prefer to snatch an already taken man: resources.
i don’t understand it myself. I feel if someone doesn’t like something bout themselve they should do something about it and stop hating
Women compete in the visual department. How you look in this dress, heels, etc. Men usually compete in the success department. How much money you make, what kind of car you drive etc… My theory is that women compete in who they are men what they have done. It’s easier to do something than to change yourself. Therefore ladies hate on each other more. Men also have less problems following an alpha male and falling into order. Ladies seem to hate that.
I understand why women may feel threatened by other women this day and age. People today have no morals and values and you have to watch those men today. Wondering eyes and hands. And some women do not give it a second thought to move right in on your man. HOWEVER…And that's a big however! I find women to be extremely catty and bitchy. So much so that I prefer having male friends hands down! I am a woman who works out every day and takes good care of herself. I am the type of girl who puts it all out there. You will always know what I am thinking. I love to get dressed up and have fun to the point of silly. I would never hit on another woman's man. I am very respectful. With that said I find a lot of girls are not warm to me. It is hard to find a good female friend.
shoot….men can be the same way….write about that….
you picked me!!!! im so lucky!! thanks
you picked me!!!! im so lucky!! thanks
Kissy its human nature… Or rather women nature, women hate each other for no reason at all… That’s just women for you…
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i just read you blog on this im in your shoes, i appreciate other women beauty and strive to have what they have instead of hating on her lol, i wonder tho if you and i would get along, im use to get all the attention , and it seems so are you, i believe, you will attract the right man for you, and i for me, so no need to get jealous, but if your use to getting all the attention, and you meet someone who gets more than you that can be hard to take no doubt..id be taken back by it..i will asmit that
Confidence is key! And stay clear of women who proclaim they only have “male” friends….that heffa is untrustworthy if she can’t get along with other women
Confidence is key! And stay clear of women who proclaim they only have “male” friends….that heffa is untrustworthy if she can’t get along with other women
Chelly Bellee All of my friends are gorgeous and some do get more attention than me sometimes. Sometimes I get more attention than them. It’s not a good feeling but you learn to not let it bother you. I’m more comfortable around highly attractive women because they don’t really let it get to them.
well i have never met a women, who it didnt bother..thats the truth!!
Chelly Bellee Then you have to get prettier friends who are doing things with their lives besides being pretty
Once upon a time there was sisterhood. The comradeship with women is said to becoming extinct. There are few sisterhoods available compared to the world population of billions of vajay-jays in the world. What went wrong?
Low self estime and so in order 2 boost confidence thy hv 2 hate on other
hmm..easier said than done,
If you are comfortable in your own skin & know you got it going on no need to be jealous of the next woman. There’s enough to go around. You got that quality a man would want the next woman may have something different. Evrybody gone get there’s regardless. Unless your ego is so big you seek all the spotlight. & then again even a big ego has limits. Ijs
I’m with you Kissy and Chelly , I have beautiful friends and sometimes I get more attention, sometimes some of them get more either way there is no jealousy , we complement one another and don’t hate on other attractive women but there are women who turn their nose up and hate on beautiful women because of being insecure with themselves
I’m with you Kissy and Chelly , I have beautiful friends and sometimes I get more attention, sometimes some of them get more either way there is no jealousy , we complement one another and don’t hate on other attractive women but there are women who turn their nose up and hate on beautiful women because of being insecure with themselves
If your confident in yourself other peoples beauty/success shouldn’t bother you! Women like that are insecure childish and lacking a seld esteem
If your confident in yourself other peoples beauty/success shouldn’t bother you! Women like that are insecure childish and lacking a seld esteem
*self
*self
i believe that, i have one girlfriend that is comfortable around me, i admire her confidence, and we get along well, but all the rest man, girl drama…man thats why she wrote the blog, cause its true, i get it all the time, i would love to have more female friends, but idk, we`ll see what the future holds…
i believe that, i have one girlfriend that is comfortable around me, i admire her confidence, and we get along well, but all the rest man, girl drama…man thats why she wrote the blog, cause its true, i get it all the time, i would love to have more female friends, but idk, we`ll see what the future holds…
The thing is you have to get friends who are too busy trying to take over the world and accomplish things.. These type of women have no time to hate on the next chick that they are friends with.
The thing is you have to get friends who are too busy trying to take over the world and accomplish things.. These type of women have no time to hate on the next chick that they are friends with.
yes im doing more than most women..im greedy i guess, the women i get along with most is the university educated woman who has her thing going on, but even they will say, i have a PhD, im educated, and im not bringing you around to take all the men lol..lol well thanks for the blog im done, i gotta run..nice conversing with you
yes im doing more than most women..im greedy i guess, the women i get along with most is the university educated woman who has her thing going on, but even they will say, i have a PhD, im educated, and im not bringing you around to take all the men lol..lol well thanks for the blog im done, i gotta run..nice conversing with you
One girlfriend told me that she was afraid other women would be sluttier that she was willing to be, that is more than missionary in the dark.
I Just Was Talking About Why Chicks Always Talking About Why They Don’t Have Female Friends.. Some Chicks Just Be Mad When Some Of Her Friends Is Winning And She Losing, Alotta Chicks Turn Into Haters..
Or Some Chicks Can’t Hang With Other Chicks That Look A Bit Better Than Them, Some Chicks Be On Some Competing Type Ish.
You said it Ashley that’s exactly how some females be.
I completly agree kissy. I often feel the same way. I love
I think it shows pride in ones self when you take care of your self… me I give compliments all the time. I don't mind it. Because I don't feel the need to hate, or be catty. I understand exscatly want you mean about "girl friends" too. If I receive a compliment or get attention more then another girl you can see the unto easiness in most women. Damn and if another women gives me a complement in front of another female friend or acquaintance of mine.. you can feel the tention. I actually lost a cool girl friend of mine because another girl told me that I was georgious.. it turned into a big mess because I said thank-you and kept it moving… right after that our friends ship was headed for trouble. I didn't get it! 
I try to
beautiful women too.
Make female friends and they don't stick around for long at all. What can I say.. but some women are weird and can not stand to give or see other women shine. Its sad too.. because honestly if you got to know some of theses beautiful"
Women you would find that they are very lonely most of the times because of ignorant thinking by both men and woman a like.. sometimes its almost a curse.. because if you are really pretty and nice to boot.. they hate you even more… men don't want to talk to you because they think you think your all that.. and women don't want to talk to you or make fun of you because they think you think your all that… its a catch 22.. sometimes beauty can be a curse.. its not always smiles and rainbows.. even though everyone and their grandma thinks you can have everything you want. The pretty ones don't always get it because a lot of times people just assume that you already have it all so they are not going to give it to you… denying you… so called paying your dues. Btw I think you are absolutely stunning.
Joani! I just would like to say. Yes! I totally agree with you. Ii have. Tons of male friends.. but one true hands down roll dawg and he is the shhh. The others hang around exspecting something I know it.. or just to be seen with a fly chick. But yes I try to make friends with females but it is so hard. I am easy going, polite and totally respectful. Its a shame really because I'm such a sweetheart truely. But girls just don't like me. There's always something. And why do women always assume that you want there man??? Dig this.. I feel that if you are really a true woman you wouldn't try to take what is not yours.. I've never been that desperate chick